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female
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51-59,
*almcoastie
writes: i work in a relatively large company.there is one man that works within the realm of our large department that makes me curious about him. from the start he has asked co workers to get my personal status and how many kids i have, closed my office when my father died (nothing closes where I work unless its the weekend and this was on a Mond,but i attribute this one to just being sympathetic to me.) he has called me as soon as his office relocated to our main building( but I missed his call when his name flashed on the id pad, and he did not call anyone else in my department after asking them if he had ) has had clients meet him at my office, that has nothing or nowhere to do with what he needs to accomplish w/the client. We saw each other in the parking garage, me going one way and him the other, and the next think i know he's right behind me following me out of the parking garage. the latest episode is he came to my office, that is locked, to use the phone, asked me out of the other 3 people in the office to let him in, then asked me what the lock code to our door is, then had me explain to him how exactly to navigate the code. this man is a manager, and far from stupid. i don't get any weird vibes from him, just the opposite,but i am remaining professional, but i would like to hookup with him He is always smiling at me or figuring out some way to be where i am, but not in a creepy or uncomfortable way. Please help me out!!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (31 July 2012):
As long as both of you are single, I'd ask him if he'd like to go out for a drink or coffee after work sometime. Take it from there.
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