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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Theres this guy I've worked with for about two years now. He is super sweet and been really supportive towards me about my recent break up. I don't want a relationship yet but when I'm around him e just turns me on so much. Like he accidentally touched my face and every hair on my body just stood on end, it was like something out of a movie. How do I control these feelings not to have sex with him because I want to I just don't want a relationship at the moment :/ Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2012): You're totally attracted to this guy, right? You think mentlly you don't wanna get involved just yet. Thats fine. But you can't tell your body that. And you think he's nice guy. You like him, and by the time you're ready for a relationship, he may find someone else. I think you should take him while he's right in front of you. Not when he's out of reach and into someone else. If you're problem with isn't that you're not ready but youre not sure of him, try him on for size. And if the shoe fits, wear it. Hope ya find this helpful.
-Sarah
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female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 August 2012):
Just keep reminding yourself over and over again that you don't want a relationship just at the moment. Rubber band on the wrist kind of thing. Unless of course deep down you DO want a relationship.
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