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anonymous
writes: SO this is embarrassing.... but i was wondering how often do normal women masturbate? cause i am 16 and i think the level at which i am at is not normal. but idk, cause its not really something you just causally talk about with ur best friends. i dont think it helps thats i started way early, cause the first time i ever masturbated was in like 6th grade. Back then i had a back massager and it took me like 2 minutes, but i didnt have to look at porn or anything. but that massager broke after like a year or two and i got used to just using my hands. But now it takes me like 10-20 minutes and i watch porn on my ipod while i do it. also i do it like 1-3 times a day, like everyday, and the stuff i watch that turns me on is really weird, and i don't ever want to do it but it still turns me on, and its not even like i cant have sex, cause i have a boyfriend who is highly attracted to me and would totally have sex with me it i asked him to, but i am only 16 and a jr in high school and i wanna wait, and he is super sweet so he would never force me or pressure me into something i didn't want to do...so is all this normal? or is this like the makings of a sex addiction?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2012): dont worry girl, youre just fine! (honestly, i go up to 4 or 5 sometimes because i do have a vibrating chair at my computer desk. so when i watch porn and masturbate, it feels soooooo good! ;) but your habbit is 100% healthy, no worries! i even see my bf ryan masturbating sometimes. we do that together instead of sex untill after jr high ;P
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reader, Lesbian93 +, writes (12 August 2012):
Totally normal to masturbate that many times. I do it all the time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2012): I'm 17 and I was thinking the same thing, I masturbate every night to porn and thought It was not normal but it is, the average is something like 2-3 times a day I think? The answer to your question though is it is completely normal Hun so don't worry :-)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 August 2012):
at your age I was at about 2 times a day... but i was not a porn watcher (not really available back then like it is now)
if it's not interfering with your life, (you still go to school, have friends and are active and busy) then I think it's fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2012): I don't masturbate at all - that's normal for me. One of my friends masturbates everyday - that's normal for her. Everyone is different, so there's no 'normal' amount.
If you're happy, and it's enough for you, then it's normal for you. You're not doing yourself any harm, providing you're not relying/addicted to it
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 August 2012):
1-3 times a day is on the high end in my opinion but if you have the spare time it's normal I guess. I'm glad you want to wait on the sex with your boyfriend however. Lots of time for sex in the future when you are a little older. Just relax and enjoy the the last couple years of high school. I know I had a blast my jr. and sr. years, tons of fond memories that make me smile to this day.
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