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writes:I have been married 10 years now and have learnt that my wife has been cheating for the last 3 years. I had always been faithful to her all along and she is unable to give me any reply and just say's I don't know how I did it. I have 2 kids and don't know what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (19 February 2007):
 Unless she is in a vegetative state she knows exactly why she is behaving this way. She has a lot of explaining to do and she knows it, she is avoiding the discussion. Tell her to fess up and cough up all the information or you will walk. Do not put up her her nonsense a moment longer. Good luck.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (19 February 2007):
 i am sorry about all this. its a pity that the one we love is always the ones who hurt us the most. like eddie said she need to give you explanation and please dont take any excuses, she disrespected you and humiliated you and make a mockery of your marriage and the least you deserve is an explanation and dont let her play with your emotions and make you feel guilty its her wrong doing and she must take full responsibility for it.
i will really understand if you dont want her in your life there is really no excuse forgiveable for what she has done, so dont feel like you owe her anything, if you choose to forgive her let it come out of your own free will not under obligations because there is nothing in the world that justifies what she has done.
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reader, Buxom +, writes (19 February 2007):
Oh dear... that must be really hard on you. Demand for an explanation. Tell her you have the right to know why she did what she did. She is being very unfair by saying she didn't know how it happened. It was not a one time mistake. It has been going on for 3 years.And when you have all the answers, it's upto you if you want to forgive her and give her another chance or finish off with her. If you do decide to give her another chance, make sure to explain it to her that this would be her last chance... else, I'm afraid she might take you for ranted if you chose to forgive her. I'm sorry dear... I hope you feel better soon.. hugs.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (19 February 2007):
 Well you're in control now. Sit down and don't get up until she talks and explains her deeds. You deseverve nothing less ans so much more. You can't move on this until you have the information.
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