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writes:hey. well im in a bit of a situation, i met this guy a year ago, and we got together, for a few weeks then stopped contact for 6 months, then he approached me, and althou we not dating we've been seeing each other since november last year, then i found out he has a gf of 4 months and his female cousin isnt his cousin, even thou he has a gf i still see him ,kand ive caught him with another girl that wasnt his gf a week ago... i really care about him but honestly dint know what too do! ive confronted his "cousin" and she says he was also dating him in november till december, they only broke up in x mas.... any advice? i really care about him, and dont want to lose him, is there anyway i can get him to leave his gf? he says he wants to? if he does will he be faithful?
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reader, chirpychicken  +, writes (24 February 2007):
 chick...get real i know you love this man but he is a player thats the end of it. He doesnt care for you he just sees you as a bit of fun and another thing NEVER go with somebody elses man...it always ends in tears. If they didnt love their gf they wouldnt be with them he loves her but gets bored and likes a bit or 2 on the side so steer clear, find yourself a man who likes you for who you are and you only. i hope it works out
Take care
CC x
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reader, AskEve +, writes (23 February 2007):
 Yep, the other aunts are right, he's a player and has no intentions of settling with just you or anyone else for that matter. Either be happy to be his friend, (that means NOT sleeping with him) or put him out of your head and move on to find someone who WILL be faithful to you as this guy certainly won't be!
Eve
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reader, answers4u +, writes (22 February 2007):
 hiI just wanna say to you that the guy you are after is a playa. You need to find a real boyfriend who apprecaties you for you and loves you. I think you are a really nice person to care for this man however i think you know that deep down he isn't for you. Don't even try and break him and his girlfriends because that will happen in time slowly . I hope you find someone and have a nice life . Hope this helps you thnx
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reader, cheesy_babe +, writes (22 February 2007):
 by the sound of it this guy seems like he is all talk but when it comes to it he never will. why would he leave you for his girlfriend when he can have you both and more, i don't think he ever will leav his girlfriend, but this doesn't mean he doesn't care about you, i am sure he does, but if you want to carry on with him i think you should just say to him alright tell me are you going to leave your girl friend? put a time limit on the time he has to tell her by. but this might not always go the way you want it to, so you have to choose are you happy at the moment with the way things are going. if you are then carry on with it if it is making you happy. if not confront him and hope for the best.hope i helped a bitgood luck!!!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (22 February 2007):
 This guy sounds like a real player. If you want some who is yours exclusively then I think you'd better keep looking. Good luck.
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