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writes: I am supposed to be getting married in two months time. What is the problem. Well, we have both been married before. He has been married twice before. We both had the big wedding stuff in the past and don't want it now. or i thought i didn't! He has booked a wedding about 70 miles away and the witnesses will be the people from the registry office. I suddenly feel like 'billy no-mates'. I will have no friends or relatives there to help me enjoy the day, see our outfits etc. No cake. Am i being odd to feel this way. I have three kids, who are not invited and he has three, one he never see, another is in care, who is horrible to everyone and another one who is odd to say the least. What are others views on this, because I feel really flat and depressed about the whole thing. Help needed please.
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reader, xSpacexDementiax  +, writes (19 February 2007):
 Like everyone's said, just tell him!!! Start your marriage like you mean to go on by being open with him...
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (19 February 2007):
 It's your wedding as well as his so just step up to the plate and tell him you guys need to change a few of the plans. Then make arrangements that suit both of you. I assume that he loves you very much so he won't have a problem with this. Best Wishes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2007): Im not surprised, why is he having it so far away and not were everyone can enjoy and share your special day? I think hes being very unfair and selfish and his actions show by booking the wedding so far away. You should definatly step in before the day creeps closer and you end up worrying about it all more and more, and thats not good when you should be happy that your getting married. Its not just his special day its yours aswell and id definatly make sure that my friends and family where there to share it with me. You need to do something about this now before its too late. Hope that helps x
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reader, malica +, writes (19 February 2007):
u should tell him that i dnt like this i want my friend and other to be in it. tell him i want my kids in it. tell him where u want r wedding to be.
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