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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Please help me to understand this. What does it mean when a person says you bring out the worst in him..... he broke up with me and now he always avoids me bringing up the subject and he later told me i bring out the worst in him....he is dating somebody else that is why he broke up with me and he keeps rolling back and forth with me and i cannot help but to confront him with this issue... do u think its an emotional blackmail
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2007): Blaming and faulting you and then running away from him saying a hurtful and abusive statement; not good signs of a good and loving man.
He isn't faithful. He is incapable of loving someone the way they need and deserve.
Focus on his ACTIONS-they say everything about him. That his words are also mean and indicate who he really is. He hates himself and is void of love.
Time to move on Sweetness.
Best Wishes.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (19 February 2007):
 You need to stop allowing him to roll back and forth. Cut him out of you life and move on The only reason he can use emotional blackmail on you is because you allow it. When some says "you bring out the worst in me" then turn around and RUN in the opposite direction. Good luck.
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