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writes:Im 12 and i have already hit puberty ( it runs in the family ) and i am dating a girl but we dont really kiss or do anything but i want to kiss her so bad, but she dosnt want to and now i have started hitting on other girls what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (16 February 2007):
I got puberty before most of the other kids aswell. So although your going mad and want to kiss her, you need to be nice and NOT pushey at all times. You wont have any girlfriend if you keep trying it on with however many different girls. You will get a bad reputation and no-one with want to be your girlfriend. Stick with her and like i said dont be pushey, and everything should work out when shes ready. and NOT before.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 February 2007):
 I can relate, puberty runs in my family too! If she's not ready then she's not ready. Act like a gentleman whenever you are around her. Eventually she'll be ready but only she will know when she is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): hiya ... aww bless you!! im only 14 and when my bf started 2 hug and kiss me more ... and first i was like .. please leave me alone! but o got used to it and started to like it ... i think u should talk 2 her abowt it ... without all hers and your friends aound... just take her somewhere quiet and lay it all owt.. say something like i love you .. i really do and i just wanted to ask you if it would be okay if we started to hug and kiss more oftn becuse lalalalalllaaaa hehe xxx
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reader, AskEve +, writes (16 February 2007):
 Like CD says, I would hold back for now, she's more or less told you she's not ready yet. That doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't like you, she just doesn't feel ready to do that so don't push her or you'll only push her away. Continue being her friend for now and have fun. You are both still very young and that will all come to both of you soon enough.
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): it'd be kinder to break up with her than to keep on hitting on other girls while you're with her
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reader, cd206 +, writes (15 February 2007):
 You have to decide what's more important to you, your girlfriend or getting that kiss. Your girlfriend has made it quite clear that she's not ready to kiss yet and she's right, you're both so young that there's no rush. However you can't have it both ways, at least not yet so make a decision.
CD
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