I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!
Q. I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...
A. 15 June 2010: I just love it when the old chestnuts get dug up.... (read in full...)
I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!
Q. I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...
A. 6 April 2010: yeah the old guy's probably pushing up daisies by now... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 March 2009: I love happy endings! Best wishes on your new relationship, Lord knows you deserve it after all you've been through! You are going to stay with us too I hope.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 August 2008: Congrats on finally getting the divorce from that louse. And you are exactly right, payback is going to be a bitch for him. Karma hates assholes like him. Your trust will return and happiness is right around the corner for you. You are a lovely ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 July 2008: Well I certainly liked the last part of your update! Enjoy the positive attention, you definitely are deserving after the dickhead.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 2 June 2008: Sarcy, be very careful if you decide to check out his involvement with his lawyer. You don't want to be charged with stalking. However the aunts are right IF he is involved with her, and you can prove it, you'll be sitting in the catbird seat. As ... (read in full...)
I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!
Q. I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...
A. 15 May 2008: I don't know correct me if I'm wrong but I have a feeling she has resolved this dilemma by now...it's almost 3 years old.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 17 April 2008: If you haven't turned your son against his father (and by your posts,you haven't)then I don't see why you would be terrified. The judge has dealt with young children before so he/she knows how to talk to them in order to understand how they really ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 8 February 2008: Sarcy,I think you need to get some counseling, I don't feel you will be able to pull out of this spiral by yourself. Do it for your son's sake.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 28 January 2008: Sarcy I know you don't want to hear this but I think the total lack of communication is the best thing right now. Your last few conversations were all ending bad and accomplishing nothing. Relax and let things cool down for awhile. He's not really ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 13 November 2007: Yeaaaa Sarcy! You go girl! You've made it pass the really rough stuff now you are on the downside of the hill! I know you are off men at the moment but don't rule out the entire sex just because of one bad apple. There is a guy out there that will ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 August 2007: Why on earth you want to live this way is beyond me. I'd kick him out and move on I really don't understand how this could possibly be better. Your sone must feel the tension as well. Are you sure about this?... (read in full...)
She called me weak and said I grovelled. Then she said she was joking! I broke up w/ her - is this what she really wanted?
Q. Sorry for posting this again but I'd hoped to get a better response. I'm struggling to get over this and maybe someone out there can help me out. I need to know if I was wrong here. I went out with a girl for 6 months, during the first 3-4, s...
A. 1 June 2007: Some people are just into playing games. Some people just like to piss people off. Some people are just immature and never do grow up. She sounds like all of the above. Like I said before you should be glad to be rid of her.... (read in full...)
My wife's dad died last night, how can I help my wife through this?
Q. ok i hope you can help me out here. i'm 33 and my wife is 32. She lost her dad last night and it very upset. I know she's grieving and everything but I've really never seen her like this before. last night when we got back from the hospital we went ...
A. 31 May 2007: You don't need any help from the aunts, you are doing everything that should be done. You are her rock. Keep up the good work. I've lost both of my parents and know the pain very well. Time is her friend and it does get easier. She will have good ... (read in full...)
My friend is so embittered to love and dating men. How can I help her?
Q. Hi! I need your help with agony-aunting my friend, because I just don't know what to tell her. I think she may be a lost cause. Okay, so, she never fell in love at all until she was twenty-six, and then it was with a married man - a workmate. They...
A. 31 May 2007: Not much you can do for her. She may or may not ever find love again. I guess when you guys go out it would be best not to do any "men bashing" to reinforce her negative feelings towards men. Other than that I guess you just need to be a good friend ... (read in full...)
How can I really show him that I really care and am really into him?
Q. I am not sure how should I deal with this. I really like my boyfriend and starting to fall for him, we have been together for 4 months now. Things were great until few weeks ago I made a stupid mistake: I couldn't see him because his daughter...
A. 31 May 2007: You answered your own question. Just be there and be supportive. He will appreciate your steadfastness and kindness during the difficult times and you will reap the benefits when things lighten up. In other words just keep on being your loving self, ... (read in full...)
Bf pressured me to give him head and said he's return the favor but he didn't! How can I ever trust him again?
Q. im 17 my boyfriend is 31 he got me 2 give him head i didnt really want to but he said he would do it back to me and he didnt . how can i trust him...
A. 30 May 2007: You can't trust him, he obviously doesn't give a rip about your feelings or wishes. Kick the curr to curb.... (read in full...)
I moved overseas w/ my bf of several months - he just broke up w/ me and said we can live together as friends!
Q. My boyfriend and I met in September and we hit it of immediately. He was then offered a dream role overseas so he left to pursue it 6 weeks later. In December I moved over to be with him and we moved in straight together - yes far too soon but we ...
A. 30 May 2007: I doubt if you can make this work if all he wants to be is friends. I guess you can stick it out and see if he changes his mind or you can return home and move on with your life. Some relationships just weren't meant to be. Maybe after a nice long ... (read in full...)
My ex won't let me see our little boy! I'm afraid our son will get the wrong idea if I take her to court! Help!
Q. Okay - my ex broke up with me. We've got a little boy that i love dearly. She moved about 400 k\m away from me. I pay maintenance, but she doesn't want me to see him. Now the thing is if I take her to court, my son might get the feeling that I w...
A. 30 May 2007: I have no way of knowing what's she's feeling just because I'm a female. Sounds like she is really mad at you and is punishing you in the only way she can. Why did you break up?... (read in full...)
I am finally feeling that this scar on my neck is just in my head! Thanks for the advice!
Q. dear agony aunties i would just like to give people an update from my previous question on the following question link here (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-seem-to-have-a-scar-line-on.html)and i been to the doctors and he keeps on sayin t...
A. 30 May 2007: Good, now you can get on with your life. Go have some fun.... (read in full...)
She called me weak and said I grovelled. Then she said she was joking! I broke up w/ her - is this what she really wanted?
Q. Sorry for posting this again but I'd hoped to get a better response. I'm struggling to get over this and maybe someone out there can help me out. I need to know if I was wrong here. I went out with a girl for 6 months, during the first 3-4, s...
A. 30 May 2007: Good Lord, aren't you guys just a tad too old to be playing these kind of games? By the sounds of things I think you are lucky to be rid of her. Give yourself some more time, you'll be able to move on. And quit letting the "mouse" and "grovel" crap ... (read in full...)
My ex won't let me see our little boy! I'm afraid our son will get the wrong idea if I take her to court! Help!
Q. Okay - my ex broke up with me. We've got a little boy that i love dearly. She moved about 400 k\m away from me. I pay maintenance, but she doesn't want me to see him. Now the thing is if I take her to court, my son might get the feeling that I w...
A. 30 May 2007: Take her to court, you can explain it all to your son when he's able to understand. You have right to see your son.... (read in full...)
She won't stop texting him and he's not interested but won't tell her plainly!
Q. My children's father and I got back together at the end of January 07. We have a 10 and 8 year old. He was dating/sleeping with this girl for about 5 months..Nothing serious at all..He basically would go over her house late night. She really feels ...
A. 30 May 2007: Well if he can't then he must certainly stop all contact with her maybe she will give up as long as she gets NO RESPONSE from him.... (read in full...)
She's had threesomes, a lot of past sex partners, and told me I can show our home made porn clip to anyone! What's her problem?
Q. I've been dating this girl for six months now and have a few doubts about her. I am just being old fashioned and silly? She's 25 and I am 30. Here's why: 20 or so sexual partners in 9 years. Can’t give an exact figure. Didn’t always go all th...
A. 30 May 2007: Well with your doubts you certainly shouldn't think of marriage at this point. It all boils down to whether you can get past her past, so to speak. If you can't this relationship is doomed. You can give some more time and see how you feel. There's ... (read in full...)
She's had threesomes, a lot of past sex partners, and told me I can show our home made porn clip to anyone! What's her problem?
Q. I've been dating this girl for six months now and have a few doubts about her. I am just being old fashioned and silly? She's 25 and I am 30. Here's why: 20 or so sexual partners in 9 years. Can’t give an exact figure. Didn’t always go all th...
A. 30 May 2007: What exactly are you asking? You sound like you have a problem with her past, is that it? If you can't let go of the past then you don't have a future.... (read in full...)
He takes holidays, doesn't tell me where he going, his daughter tells me to leave him alone--tried to end this but can't! Help..any advice?
Q. Dear all, i would appreciate any advise however harsh. I met my partner 4 years ago when he was working in my area, (he's a contractor)we clicked and got on really well despite our age difference, he's 60 17 years my senior. The problem i have i...
A. 30 May 2007: The reason you can't see a future with this guy is probably because he doesn't see one either. Are you sure he isn't married? Why would his daughter tell you to leave him alone? If you want a future with someone you better start looking around, this ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 30 May 2007: Why are you not giving him a divorce? You should. You will get full custody if you can prove his excessive drinking. But he definitely should be able to see his son and so should the grandmother. You have to force yourself not to be vindictive and ... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong and can it be fixed without going to the doctor’s?
Q. I have had UTI (Urinary Tract Infection) in the past. My doctor told me I should pee after sex to avoid this to happen again. I’ve been good doing this except for a couple of times. When it starts itching, I immediately drink lots of water and ...
A. 30 May 2007: If you think there's a chance you have an infection don't take the chance of treating it yourself, please visit the doctor. He/she can simply give you a prescription to clear it up completely.... (read in full...)
She won't stop texting him and he's not interested but won't tell her plainly!
Q. My children's father and I got back together at the end of January 07. We have a 10 and 8 year old. He was dating/sleeping with this girl for about 5 months..Nothing serious at all..He basically would go over her house late night. She really feels ...
A. 30 May 2007: If he doesn't respond to her texts and doesn't take her calls then she'll give it up sooner or later. But if he's giving her the impression that there's hope she will keep up with this nonsense. I really think he should change his phone number, why ... (read in full...)
Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?
Q. ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...
A. 30 May 2007: I just told you....Having some guy looking at you "down there" is the least of your worries at the moment I should think. ... (read in full...)
Help..I'm pregnant. What can I do?
Q. ok so i've asked alot of ? about me and my bf about french kissing, sex, etc. but i didn't listen to anybody cuz I'M PREGNANT!!! i ain't told my mom cuz she'll litterally kill me well when i went to wal-mart i found and took a pregnant test thing, ...
A. 29 May 2007: Having some guy looking at you "down there" is the least of your worries at the moment I should think. ... (read in full...)
He's pressuring me for sex! Break up now with him or later after exams are done?
Q. I have a boyfriend, and weve been going out for nearly 3 months. Weve done sexual things, but not sex. We have nearly had sex, but got walked in Now when he tries, i back out, and ive decied that i dont want to, and i dont regret my decision. I a...
A. 29 May 2007: If you can wait until exams are over that would be nice of you, but if not then tell him when he gets back, but not over the phone. I wish you good luck on the exams too.... (read in full...)
Is it true that no parents will like their daughter’s boyfriend? Any views?
Q. Is it true that no parents will like their daughter’s boyfriend? My boyfriend’s parents absolutely love me and want us to get married. On the other hand, my parents always try to find things to criticize about and tell me I should wait and see ...
A. 29 May 2007: A quick question, how old are you and your boyfriend? The way a parent feels about a boyfriend greatly depends on the age of their daughter as well as the age of the boyfriend. ... (read in full...)
Dealing with my bf and his ex at their daughter's b'day party. How should I cope?
Q. My boyfriend’s daughter is having a 7th birthday party next weekend. It’s going to be at my boyfriend’s ex’s house. For some reason, I’m feeling uneasy about it. I’ve been to the girl’s birthday party last year and seeing the 3 of them together ...
A. 29 May 2007: Just be the class act that you are and you'll feel much more comfortable. You will get more and more at ease in these situations the more you experience them.... (read in full...)
Living with the bf will mean a very long commute for me to work! Will this interfere in our relationship in the furture?
Q. My boyfriend and I are in a long distant relationship (2hrs drive) but still make every effort to see each other every weekend. Since now our relationship has become more serious, not seeing him for a week drives us crazy. We are looking into moving ...
A. 29 May 2007: I hope you factor the cost of gasoline into your plans.... (read in full...)
He's been seein my mate behind my back, he has broken my heart...how could he do this to me?
Q. I've bin with my boyfriend for 7 years, thro out these 7 years we have always been abit rocky but always felt we was in love wiv each other.i've bin thro hell an back wiv this guy, i love the bones ov this man only to find out he's been seein my ...
A. 29 May 2007: The 7 year itch isn't fiction it does happen in some relationships. And it certainly sounds like there is something going on with your "mate" (however she is no friend to you). Some relationships are just not strong enough to survive. I suggest you ... (read in full...)
I'm madly in love with a married man, he's my world!
Q. I am a lady of 44 years and am madly in love with a married man. My love is immense. Even he loves me to the core but he says he has his responsibilities. And moreover he is in Delhi and am in Bangalore. We met only once and made love. We cant be ...
A. 29 May 2007: Move to Delhi and be his sloppy seconds. And when you are old and gray you can look back on your wasted life while he and the wife hold their grandkids on their knees. ... (read in full...)
I'm married but was seeing a guy at work, now he's blocked me and I don't know how to handle being around him in the workplace.
Q. im married but got involved with a guy i met through work, the only thing i ask was that he would be honest with me and if he wanted to call it a day just say so, that way we could stay friends and when we did meet through work there wouldnt be a ...
A. 29 May 2007: Some people have to burn their fingers before they know the iron is hot. You've learned your lesson. Whenever you are uncomfortable at work think of your husband, which you should have done in the beginning of this mess.... (read in full...)
Is it my duty as a son to satisfy the emotional and psychological needs of my parents?
Q. Is it my duty as a son to satisfy the emotional and psychological needs of my parents, especially my mother? Why is it that my parents want to bully me in to doing this job for them? I am 25 yrs old guy.. please advice....
A. 29 May 2007: Satisfy their emotional and psychological needs, of course not. Being a grateful, loving son, absolutely. I hope you live on your own so you can distance yourself just a tad. Some parents have a problem with an empty nest and have to to be weaned ... (read in full...)
Special evening planned for my bf..just need some lingerie..any good online lingerie shops out there?
Q. My boyfriend comes back in three weeks from a five month trip. I really want his first night back to be special and memorable. Can anyone recommend any online lingerie shops? There are a million on the net and I don't want to end up with some...
A. 29 May 2007:
www.electriqueboutique.com ... (read in full...)
Hate his promiscuous past! How do I move on from this?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. I find myself having a hard time accepting his permiscuous past. I find it hard to forget somethings he has told me about his past with other guys. Is this normal? Is this a sign that it wont work? How do ...
A. 29 May 2007: My major concern would be to get him tested for AIDS and any other STD's if he has been promiscuous. If everything comes out clean then let his past remain in the past.... (read in full...)
I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!
Q. I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...
A. 29 May 2007: Sorry but he's getting the better end of this deal by far. He's had 50 years of having fun, going out with friends, getting an education, and just plain living. You on the other hand are just starting out, you will end up resenting him for your lost ... (read in full...)
My husband says he is burnt out in our marriage...
Q. I need some help with my marriage..To give you an idea of my relationship: Hubby is 37 I am 32..we have 2 girls 4, 9. We have been together for 11 years...married for 6. My husband recently told me he is burnt out on our marriage..the rest of ...
A. 29 May 2007: I agree with Eddie. See if he is willing to get some marital counseling with you. Since there are little kids involved you both should do everything you can to save the marriage. However if he refuses then you may need to separate for awhile and I ... (read in full...)
We're both married and having an affair! Why should I act this stupid and why does he cheat? Any advice?
Q. The head tells you to leave a married man while the heart doesnt. I started an affairs since this May. We both married, he with 2 kids and I dont have any. We have been classmates (part time study)for 1 year and suddenly he wrote the mail a...
A. 29 May 2007: You ARE a girl on call. As long as you choose to behave in this manner you'd best prepare for the consequences. Life without honor and integrity is just plain miserable.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with an unhappy married man!
Q. I'm in love with an unhappy married man and he wants to leave his wife but she is controlling his every mood. what should i do to help him get out of that and be with me were he want to be?...
A. 27 May 2007: Dearie all cheaters are "unhappily married". If he wanted to be with you, he would, duh. Now, I do have a really nice, hardly been used bridge in Brooklym I can sell you for a song, interested?... (read in full...)
My friends tease and call my bf gay! He hates it. I dislike it too...what should I do?
Q. ok so my boyfriend doesn't like to hear about my past cuz i wuz a little slut and had sex alot and he nos i don't want to hear about his past cuz he had sex a couple times but when ever my friends pick on him and say he gay he tells me to walk away ...
A. 27 May 2007: I rest my case...sigh... (read in full...)
How do I tell my children, their beloved Grandmother is dying? Any advice?
Q. Hi can someone please help. i have just found out that my childrens grandma is dying my middle daughter loves her so much how do i tell her she will be leaving us. their grandma is not very old and my children are 10 7 5 and 2 how do i handle the ...
A. 24 May 2007: Do you believe in God? If so you can tell them that He has called Grandma home because it is her time. She is going to a far far better place but will be looking down on them from time to time. And that one day they will see her again when it is ... (read in full...)
He still wants to be friends...should I or shouldn't I?
Q. "I left my troubled relationship for him. Now he has left me for pregnant ex girlfriend" He now says he would still want us to be friends. Do you think its wise for me to be friends with this guy or should i just forget he ever existed in my li...
A. 24 May 2007: I vote for the last choice you gave. ... (read in full...)
He still wants to be friends...should I or shouldn't I?
Q. "I left my troubled relationship for him. Now he has left me for pregnant ex girlfriend" He now says he would still want us to be friends. Do you think its wise for me to be friends with this guy or should i just forget he ever existed in my li...
A. 24 May 2007: I vote for the last choice you gave. ... (read in full...)
I wonder if I was the victim of a very cruel deception at the hands of my ex?
Q. Can you guys give me your viewpoints on this? I wonder if I was the victim of a very cruel deception at the hands of my ex. We were very good friends for quite some time prior to becoming partners and I thought we would get married and have a ...
A. 24 May 2007: Typo, I DON"T think you owe him any explanation for ending the friendship.... (read in full...)
She's never been kissed before so how do I tell her I have feelings??
Q. Ok sorry if this is long but it's kinda compicated. I'l try to make it short. Ok about 6 months ago i met this woman in the pub she had been in afew times before but i'd never really spoke to her. Anyway most people know each other around here so ...
A. 24 May 2007: Slow and easy wins the race. Just be your wonderful self and you'll be just fine. You don't have to "tell" her anything at this point in time. Once you get in the dating habit you'll find the right moment to express you feelings for her. And I ... (read in full...)
Attraction for my neglectful bf has waned! An old friend has caught my eye..he treats me great! what should I do?
Q. I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. I am seeing a guy who is still very much in the "one of the boys" phase, if his mates arrive when we have plans he includes them, even in a special dinner. After two months the little things he used to do ...
A. 24 May 2007: What's the problem? Dump the boyfriend and start seeing the other guy. Hummmm?... (read in full...)
I write out my feelings when I feel sad. Why can't the guy I'm dating could read my texts and realise that I'm hurting and I need his attention?
Q. when i am frustrated I have a tendency to scribe, i mean sending out sms and letters and notes... to the people especially the ones i am dating. What i have realised is that the more i scribe is the more i push them away, or its the more they do not ...
A. 24 May 2007: We are talking MEN here. They can be very dense when it comes to a lady's very sensitive nature. However if you come across as too needy they sometimes will close right up. Intense emotion can scare the bejammers out of some guys. I think your ... (read in full...)
The other woman has his baby and wants my husband back! How do I deal with this?
Q. me and my husband have been together for a lil over a year and he has a baby by another woman and this other woman hates me and wants him back and during christmas she brought him over to see him but the whole time they were talking together and he ...
A. 24 May 2007: Well he may be telling you the truth. Since she is the mother of his child she is going to be in the picture forever. He married YOU however which is obviously why she has such a problem with you. Keep an eye on the situation when your husband ... (read in full...)
I wonder if I was the victim of a very cruel deception at the hands of my ex?
Q. Can you guys give me your viewpoints on this? I wonder if I was the victim of a very cruel deception at the hands of my ex. We were very good friends for quite some time prior to becoming partners and I thought we would get married and have a ...
A. 24 May 2007: I wouldn't say victim exactly but he certainly sounds like an insensitive jerk. Who needs friends like that? You do owe him an explanation as to why you don't want to be friends any longer. Chalk this one down to experience and move on with your ... (read in full...)
My friends tease and call my bf gay! He hates it. I dislike it too...what should I do?
Q. ok so my boyfriend doesn't like to hear about my past cuz i wuz a little slut and had sex alot and he nos i don't want to hear about his past cuz he had sex a couple times but when ever my friends pick on him and say he gay he tells me to walk away ...
A. 23 May 2007: See this is exactly why children shouldn't be even thinking about sex, gee whiz. Who needs this kind of crap in childhood let alone in the teenage years? A 10 year with a past! Why don't you just step down and enjoy your few remaining days of ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 April 2007: Well Babe you gave it your best shot, but it's beating a dead horse now. It's over.You already know that ime is your friend and each day will be a bit easier. Stay busy.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 March 2007: I think you are starting to think very clearly. And I couldn't agree more about his being a loser who will ultimately regret his decisions but be that as it may, YOU need to get on with your life. You are behaving admirably. Distance yourself as ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 6 March 2007: I'm going to have to really think on this for a bit. I'll get back to you.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 28 February 2007: It's so great to hear that he's feeling somewhat excluded from your life, you must be doing something right! Also I'm glad to hear that you can see humor in some of his shenanigans, he certainly is a piece of work. Hang in there babe, I think you ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2007: I don't think he seems very happy and I don't mean just when he's around you I mean he seems rather depressed period. You'd think he'd be acting pretty perky if he was madly in love. Maybe he and the tramp don't have the greatest relationship after ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2007: I glanced over this entire thread and I can tell you are on the mend. You've come a long way. You might have some bad days occassionally but I think you are doing better and better. Hugs.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 February 2007: See! As time is slowly going by you've started to heal and the HEEL is showing his true colors. You now see him for the creep he is I know it is just a matter of time before you wouldn't take him back for a million dollars. Keep plogging, it will ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 February 2007: See! As time is slowly going by you've started to heal and the HEEL is showing his true colors. You now see him for the creep he is I know it is just a matter of time before you wouldn't take him back for a million dollars. Keep plogging, it will ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 February 2007: I think you are getting better and better at handling this difficult situation. Practice makes perfect. Stay cool tomorrow and good luck, let us know how things turn out.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 2 February 2007: Well when you are face to face and he tells you something and you KNOW he's not telling you the truth, maybe you could say "really?" in a questioning sort of way so he has to repeat his lie (which will make him very uncomfortable). After he says it ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 February 2007: If it's any consolation to you, that woman will eventually bring him misery and vast unhappiness. She is without any morals or class and her true colors will sooner or later surface and he will most likely feel great regret. By that time you will ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 January 2007: You are doing a great job of working through this. I know how difficult it is but I think you are slowly making progress. Time is your best friend. Hang in there, Babe. Keep us posted.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 4 January 2007: When he calls, be business like, cool, not overly friendly. Maybe you could say that you are expecting an important call any minute so the phone conversation shouldn't be too long. Or that you were just heading out to meet up with some friends...you ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 3 January 2007: I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Your husband should of separated BEFORE he started seeing this homewrecker, what a cad. What you need now is a good therapist (make the husband fork over for it)and get rid of some of the bad feelings. He/she ... (read in full...)
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