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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:im 17 my boyfriend is 31 he got me 2 give him head i didnt really want to but he said he would do it back to me and he didnt . how can i trust him Reply to this Question
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reader, Blue Rat +, writes (31 May 2007):
Personally I think the rule in sex is quite simple. Whether you're talking about oral, anal, straightforward missionary position, or any other variation of any kind. Don't ever do it as a favour. Do something because you want to do it and it turns you on. If you don't want to do it, it doesn't turn you on or you're simply not comfortable with something, then don't do it.
Good sex isn't about "doing favours." You're not lending someone your lawn mower or dropping them off at the airport!
You're supposed to be having fun!
Good luck.
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female
reader, candy00s +, writes (31 May 2007):
 He wasn't thinking about what you wanted to do or your needs. He manipulated you into doing this promising to return the favour - once he was satisfied he was happy and didnt care about what you wanted.
Dont trust him, he is taking advantage.
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reader, hugs2muchgal  +, writes (31 May 2007):
 He is a jerk. Get someone who respects and loves you.You deserve so much better.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (30 May 2007):
 Dont trust him. Break it off.
He sounds like a dirtbag.
Also NEVER be forced into sex you do not want to do.
Break it off
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reader, DV1 +, writes (30 May 2007):
 If you say no, and he keeps pushing you, that's called rape. It's your body. Find someone else, because he's a sleazebag.
DV1
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (30 May 2007):
 You can't trust him, he obviously doesn't give a rip about your feelings or wishes. Kick the curr to curb.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2007): he obviously is taking advantage of your young age and is using you just for sex, get rid of him. he is not interested in you for a relationship. Do you want to be used for a bit of head????
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