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Is having a virtual gf, with the intent of meeting her in real life....a good thing or not?

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Question - (22 October 2008) 13 Answers - (Newest, 23 October 2008)
A male South Africa age 36-40, *ncryptionKING writes:

ok,well lets see who can help me,

many of you might know what a Vworld is, many might not,

here is a link to one of the many

www.kaneva.com

i want to know, Is have a virtual g/f is a good thing or not?

eg: getting ego boost so you can go for that girl in real life,

would like to see what you all think

cheers

king

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A male reader, encryptionKING South Africa +, writes (23 October 2008):

encryptionKING is verified as being by the original poster of the question

encryptionKING agony aunti do have a sense of humor,

why else do i have a bunny as a pic?

lmao...

great fun miss greeneye

cheers

king

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (23 October 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntBunnyman, I think you will have even greater luck finding your "virtual g/f" if you develop a sense of humor...Sheesh.

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A male reader, encryptionKING South Africa +, writes (23 October 2008):

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encryptionKING agony auntthank you Diovan

happy that SOMEONE on this site know about Vworlds

but i did give the link for the people to check out,

anyway, thanks for the help Diovan

cheers

king

( btw you got second life? )

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008):

encryptionKING,

Please don't be angry with the aunts and uncles, they don't understand what the hell you are talking about. If you explained more about www.kaneva.com, then they would understand and they would have given you more relevant advice.

An very nice aunt on the board has told me all about Kaneva, it's like Second Life people, it's a virtual chat room that imitates real life with virtual houses, people, clubs, libraries, etc.... It's not a sexual pornography thing, it's just a virtual online world where people hang out.

Yes babes, it's ok for you to learn your conversation skills with girls in this world, it will even help you to take on board that many people are different from you, and will help you to take less offense when people misunderstand things...

However there are very, very, strong warnings that I must give. Please do not become addicted, because many people have this problem. Do not use it more than a couple of days a week, and do not spend more than 30 minutes using it at any one time. Please also remember to keep yourself safe. Do not give out phone numbers, addresses or credit cards to anyone. People are not who they say they are. The young pretty girl you meet, may actually be a dirty old man who likes to have sex with young boys. Have fun in your adventures, my aunt friend told me about a bar there somewhere that one of her children runs. Can't remember where it is, but I'm sure if you mention Dear Cupid, he'll help you out and make sure that your safe.

Remember that this is fantasy. Sure it will give you confidence, but it's not reality. In fantasy we can do anything we want, we can be whoever we like. But reality is still difficult, you might still feel shy and nervous, you will still get things wrong. Be careful, and always be aware of the dangers when your online. But go and have fun, and remember that online sites are international, and try to understand that people are all different, so don't get upset by little things that we say by mistake.

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A male reader, encryptionKING South Africa +, writes (23 October 2008):

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encryptionKING agony aunteyeswideopen wtf is your problem?

"bunnyman" well i got my reasons for the bunny thank you...

if you want to have problems tell em... dont need drama... miss green eye...

btw anonymous

i agree with what you said well done....

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008):

If the virtual gf and you, both are having fun until you find a real person in life, its all good.But you must know the intentions of this virtual gf too.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (22 October 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntEase up Bunnyman, don't you recognise sarcasm when you see it?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008):

I don't understand, can you please give more information. I am aware of the virtual world site you are refering to. I do know that there are many couples and love affairs and even marraiges. Are you asking if this be an advantage to you when meeting any girl or are you asking, (are you actually thinking) of meeting your virual world girlfriend in real life? I don't think that is a good idea.Virtual world is not real and people might be faking there identity and who they are. No keep virtual world and your real life separate.

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A male reader, encryptionKING South Africa +, writes (22 October 2008):

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encryptionKING agony auntleave bill gates,

he one of the greatest men on this world!

A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (22 October 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntYikes, that damn Internet is once again pulling the wool over another poor smuck's eyes, I blame Bill Gates.

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A male reader, encryptionKING South Africa +, writes (22 October 2008):

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encryptionKING agony auntWHO SAID ANYTHING ABOUT PAYING!!!???

A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom + ?, writes (22 October 2008):

If you are paying a girl to be nice to you then you will never have a chance with her in real life.

That's not her... that's a persona she puts on to make men like her enough to pay to speak to her.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (22 October 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntYikes, that damn Internet is once again pulling the wool over another poor smuck's eyes, I blame Bill Gates.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (22 October 2008):

If you are paying a girl to be nice to you then you will never have a chance with her in real life.

That's not her... that's a persona she puts on to make men like her enough to pay to speak to her.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (22 October 2008):

Danielepew agony auntMy personal opinion is that it is not. I prefer the real thing.

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