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writes:okay so i have a bit of a situation. I have a huge crush on my chemistry. The man is gorgeous and he's awesome which is an added bonus! I'm usually a flirty person with just about everyone. I can't really help it, I'm a natural flirt, but I do it a lot more with him and he flirts back. He's only ten years older than me and he's single so it's not completely crazy for me to like him. Plus every year since he's started at our school he's dated one of the seniors after they've graduated. I really like him so after I graduate(I'm only a sophmore right now) I might see if he's really interested then, but what I want to know is what can I do to stop flirting with him now? I've tried not to but my best friend tells that I still do. How can I change that? please help me!
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reader, Steffiemon +, writes (19 July 2009):
It's pretty hard to stop flirting, and it really is subconscious on a level. I don't even realize i'm doing it until someone tells me or I walk away from the person. I'd also like to stop, because it gets me in situations.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): You say he goes out with ppl graduating?
Honestly get over this guy and get over yourself do you know what mess u could get into he sounds a right pedo!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): "he's only 25 and I'm 15, almost 16"
That's the exact definition of a pedo. Stop lying to yourself in order to justify the way you act. And stop pretending to not know you're flirting when you do. That is incredibly immature.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt's not that I go unconscious when I flirt, it's just that I don't realize that I'm doing it. It's kinda hard to stop doing something that you don't even realize you're doing. He's not a pedophile, he's only 25 and I'm 15, almost 16, and he's never dated anyone under the age of 18. I do date people my own age, I've just always liked guys who were older than me. My sister's 21 and she's my best friend, so I've always hung out with her and her friends. I'm more like 20 year olds then 16 year olds when it comes to the things that I like because of that. I just relate better to them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): So you like attention from pedofiles? That' is disgusting. Go date people your age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): it's harmless to flirt with him right now. just don't let it escalate to something more while he is your teacher because that is illegal. but my point is that you don't HAVE to quit flirting with him. but you can try to quit flirting with him. though sadly it's only up to you to quit flirting with him. i don't think anyone can tell you how to quit flirting with someone. that's only up to you and if you're willing to quit flirting with him.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (22 October 2008):
 What, do you go unconscious when you kick into flirt mode or something? If you really want to stop, then stop. There, problem solved.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): dont stop flirting with him, theres no harm in flirting. just dont let anything happen while hes still your teacher.
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