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female
age
30-35,
*hazza
writes:i hav just recently split up with my b.f with whom i hav 2 kids with none wer planned but i dnt regret them... i havnt been wnting him for a long wile now... and finally gt the courage to split.. as of my ex boyfriend, whom i got wiv when i was 14 and stayed together for 3/4 yrs.. and then we split after an argument and stopped talking.. around 4 yrs ago.. he lives 30 miles away so i cudnt contact him. but through the relationship with my babys dad i cudnt stop thinking about my ex and dreamt about him all the time.. and now iv split with him i looked for him and hav found him.. he gave me his fone number and we tlkd and he sed it wud be hard for us to be together as hes bin in the same job for years and nearly made his own company out of it.. and he cudnt travel all the time as he'd be workin also hes not redi to take on the kids yet [im thinking it myt also be hard for him as i was pregnant twice and had a miscarraige both times] and said we'd just be frends as he dint wnt to jus leave it and not tlk agen as hes felt the same way for these past years thinking and dreaming about me every day, also that he still loves me.. i said id be willing to move to him for us to be together in time.. he didnt say no but not yes either.. iv txt him the past few days since we spoke and hes ignoring me my fone calls aswell.. i think maybe he hasnt got any credit but why wud he ignore my calls aswell.. he means the world to me and dnt wnt to loose him again... and im willing to do anything to be with him.. what am i to do? please help..
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (21 October 2008):
 I think you are coming across as desperate and boy that will turn a guy off faster than a light switch. You'd best slow down here and give him and your new found relationship some air. Let him be the first to call.
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