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writes: Hey.ok my problem is pretty weird.Any lets get to it.Im 14, And i dont wear anything that shows my knee's.is there something wrong with me cause i think my knee's are ugly and i get embarrassed by them if people see them i mean its fine around home but when theres people over or im with friends or my boyfriend i have to wear long pants cause i get paranoied about them.anyway hope someone can help in anyway.thanks. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, nuttypistachio +, writes (12 November 2009):
Bet you mine are uglier, and I don't even have the excuse of a scar. Mine are just plain ugly (from the back anyway). I wear tights a lot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni dont like my knees i havnt since i was like 7 i have a huge scar under one from my sisters ex she tells me never to bring him up but hello i got a scar how can i forget?and i dont like showing part of my legs because i have eczema and i dont really notice temperature in my legs that much so in summer i can wear tracsuit pants n not feel the heat sometimes... its weird but i just cant get over my knees :S
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (22 September 2009):
I have a huge scar on my knee, at first i hated it and when i wore shorts or dresses people always point it out and go 'errrrr whats that!' but it may sound strange but i now love my scar, it reminds me of the inncident where i got it and when people point it out i just ignore them because i know that i love my scar now :) i do have a fear of knees though still because i dislocated mine a few years back. What i'm trying to say is that however 'ugly' you think it is i guarantee you it really isn't as bad as you think, everyone has knees and to be honest i don't really notice other peoples knees!
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reader, Blod +, writes (22 September 2009):
I'm 99.9% certain that there's nothing wrong with your knees and there's no real need to be so self-concious about it. But I know there's not much worse than showing off something that you're really self-conscious about. I'm pretty sure it'll get better with time. Try wearing tights or something, so you're showing your knees but covering them at the same time. If you feel self-conscious then admit that you hate your knees. Tell people, they'll tell you there's no need. Then build on that. No need to worry. Good Luck. X
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (22 September 2009):
What the???I've never heard of a guy in oz even mentioning a girls knees, let alone giving a crap. Sorry if this seems insensitive, but guys are interested in a lot of features of girls, but I swear to god that knees do not even register!! Wear shorts, they're more comfortable and you can get a nice tan. Relax aye!Best of luck.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (22 September 2009):
You too young to be worrying. I bet a million pounds there's nothing wrog with you and you're worrying to much. Stop worrying. x
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (22 September 2009):
I think that we all have something that we are self-conscious about. Why do you think your knees are ugly? I bet others don't even notice this perceived "defect."
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (22 September 2009):
Everybody's knees are kind of funny looking. So are noses and elbows. Doesn't it get hot in the summer in Australia? I'd go for comfort anytime rather than fret over something that looks funny on the entire human race. Besides you should be grateful your knees are working well, some people's don't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2009): trust me- no one has wierder knees than me but really just think about it properly for a second...why would people care so much about you?It sounds mean but people will not notice, stare, etc. Everyone thinks that when they walk into a room everyone looks at them and notices the bad things straight away. But the truth is they are too busy worrying about themselves and whether everyone's looking at them! So it's just a confidence thing and you'll just have too grin and bear it! lol
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