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*udyR402
writes:Ok I'm in the 8th grade. I recently transferered schools. There are a lot of guys that are cute there. I don't have any classes with any of them. I see them in the hallway but I'm to shy to say anything since I'm the new girl. What should I do? Plus isn't the guy supposed to say hi to me first or something?
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reader, cmsl  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 Alot of the time if you're the new girl at school then probably all the guys are afraid to ask; they're to busy trying to figure you out. Usually when you get to a new school you're the mysterious new girl who nobody knows and are all somewhat intimidated by. My advice - give it time, they'll come around soon enough.
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reader, JudyR402 +, writes (7 November 2010):
JudyR402 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnd i am an honor roll student plus i never get in trouble. Ill try the book thingy on monday : )
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): you are still a child in 8th grade. Kids in school would be better prepared for life and better protected if they put 'sex' and 'connecting' on the back burner. You also run the risk of early pregnancies, sexially transmitted diseases, and AIDS when you desire to rush into a boy-girl relationship too early. Just get on with your school work and aim for good grades. There is so much you do not know, and dont need to learn yet about your sexuality. Premature Precocius sexuality is a scourge across America. Putting un-natural pressure on boys and girls to 'connect' while they are legally under age and emotionally ill-equipped to handle a travesty of what is love and what is a relationship.
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reader, heartbrokenhelper +, writes (7 November 2010):
 Girl, its the 21st century , go for it make the first move say hi,maybe "incidentally" drop something by them if they care or are nice they would help you pick it up.. then if they do they are worth you time and you can go on from there...
well anyways good luck Hun.
PS. find out what they like and Discuss that in "friendly conversation"
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