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Do I tell my boyfriend his friend hit on me?

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Question - (6 November 2010) 8 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *avannahR writes:

My boyfriends Friend made move on me, and ididnt say nothing to him but iwanna tell my boyfriend I don't know if ishould because he gets mad quick help me!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010):

i don't think you should tell your boyfriend if it's going to cause trouble between you two. But if you feel like you should tell him than tell him. But i personally think after hearing your updates that it may not be the right desicion. but like it said if you feel like you should, you should.

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A female reader, CandyKins United States +, writes (6 November 2010):

CandyKins agony auntno need to get your bf involved. Handle the guy yourself but if he gets forceful and pressuring then tell your bf so he could protect you and sort him out in a man to man way.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (6 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntI would definitely tell his friend to buzz off, and not to try any smooth moves on you ever again..or you'll tell your boyfriend. Then leave it at that. Handle this yourself, no need to get your boyfriend involved when his dad is in the hospital.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010):

Well if you think that your boyfriend will choose his friend over you then maybe you should keep it to yourself. But i would talk to this other guy and explain to him that he made you feel uncomforable. But on the otherhand he could of not meant anything by it. just fooling around. you know?

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A female reader, SavannahR United States +, writes (6 November 2010):

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SavannahR agony auntso you think ishould tell my boyfriend what happend?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010):

If it made you uncomforable, then yes. But if you don't want a huge fight, then no. But i really think your boyfriend has a right to know. This person is suppose to be his friend and a good friend doesn't hit on thier friends girlfriends.

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A female reader, SavannahR United States +, writes (6 November 2010):

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SavannahR agony auntNo , ok well my boyfriends away to see his father he had a stroke and he went yesterday and last night me and his friend wich was a boy and my other girl friend wich was a girl we went out to tha movies and seen mega mind ; the girl ended up leaving at 1O half way threw the movie and ounce she left he startted to flirt he put his leg on me and imoved it off then he made the move and put his arm around me ? And I let him do it because ididnt know how to get it off ididnt want to be rude and have him hate me cause me and him are friends and close are self'ves just my bf has a small temper and will choose his friend over me and ireally love this guy

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (6 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntYou could but it might start a war, or his friend could deny these allegations..his word against yours, who is your boyfriend more likely to believe?

What kind of move is this? Did you do anything to prevent it? Like tell him no, or push him off of you. If you feel threatened by his friend like as in he might rape you, then I would tell your boyfriend about the ordeal. But if he was being a douche and trying to kiss you, but you shot him down..then I would let it go.

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