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I fell in love with a stranger!

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Question - (6 November 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2010)
A female South Africa age 36-40, *amee writes:

Hey

My name ammie and am 22 years old

Well ,,I don’t know where should I start ,,

Or how can I Describe my situation

Am single since 4 months ago things are going pretty smoothly for me

And I find it a great time for me to get to know myself more and be much wiser and intelligent and work on my inner and outer beauty and enjoy this freedom I got

Cos I believe that my next man should have me much stronger because what happened on my ex relationship wasn’t his fault,,

I know u might read this now and start wondering what's wrong and why I'm even sending this email cause its seems am doing well so far

but wait tell you read this,,

a month ago I was on facebook I add a guy that I don’t know and I never talk to him ,focus on the last sentence (never talk to him) I open his page he looks ok nothing special ,,

the way he looks , thy way he dress up are so simple ,,

I close his page and I find myself back to it again looking at him ,, yes I felt in love with him

Don’t even ask how or why,, I don’t know it's just happened ,, u know when u start thinking about your dream one and u draw a pic of the way he looks I can tell u that guy was almost like 85% looking like the one I dream off,, but that’s only pathetic reason ,, and I know am wrong ,,so wrong and I'm the only one that would end up damage not him,, cause he don’t even know that am existed ,,I been telling myself that I should of take to him to get to know him and trying to figure why did he attracted me that much ,,but I stop myself we don’t even live in the same country not even the same Continent ,,it's hilarious I know

I do know am wrong and I swear that am not a shallow girl I'm much wiser then this

It's truly painful for me I really want to know what to do ,,cause I start to get this moment for crying which makes me so weak I don’t want to be weak ,, I'm really paining I am truly into him I can't take him of my mind for a Second ,, please help me , lead me ,, I would do anything to protect my heart ,, cause me and him something well never happened I just can't help it

Even all that can't stop my feelings for him,,

I need to know What to do??

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A female reader, lamee South Africa +, writes (7 November 2010):

lamee is verified as being by the original poster of the question

lamee agony auntaunt honesty thanx a lot its really hard to do that :( ,, i been thinking bout it ,, i'll bush on my self to do that cause ur so right its the only way to move on,,

SharksTooth ,, well i do ,, am a given person and some time i miss the feeling of have someone to take care of and love,, but what i feel for him is awkward really i never been like that be4 ,, and yeah thy right bout deleting him'' i'll try my best to do that thanx a lot

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A female reader, SharksTooth United Kingdom +, writes (7 November 2010):

I think maybe your craving love & affection and have mistaken this craving as what you think you might feel for this guy. I agree with the other answers, delete the page. Focus on meeting people in your own country.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (6 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony aunthi well at least you no that it is highly unlikely that anything will happen between the both of you because he doesnt no you and you live so far away, now just take a moment to think how you fell for this image? Because darling all you have falling for is a fictional guy someone you can look at but you can make up in your head what he is like in person and what his personality is. Truely though you dont no this guy at all and he might not be what you think he is. Now i no the next thing i tell you is going to be very hard for you but you need to delete his profile from your page and stop looking at it, you need to do this to move forward and continue with finding yourself and your independence.

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