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*ingingchicky
writes:There's this guy of whom I know through family ties (he is related to friends of the family.) At our annual Halloween party, he and I seemed to be hitting it off rather well. He would tease me and I would flirt. After exchanging numbers and having texted him as of late, I feel an awkward tension over our small conversation. Am I imagining it? I like talking to him, but every text he sends is one word (unless he is answering a question I asked him.)Should I give up and move on?
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reader, singingchicky +, writes (7 November 2010):
singingchicky is verified as being by the original poster of the questionxanthic, I am the one asking all the questions... and actually when I ask to hang out (the whole purpose of having his number) all I get is a maybe. I think you are right.
thewalkin'dude, I'm kind of afraid to call him, mostly because of the responses I get when I text him.
MelaBoo, my wishful thinking hopes you are right. I do hope this guy is interested in me, but it doesn't seem like he wants anything to do with me.
thank you guys for your answers :)
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reader, MelaBoo +, writes (6 November 2010):
 gurl this was one of my sisters questions too..but let me tell u something.. them one word texts could mean the world to u cuz u like him so much but they can also mean that hes not intrested.. he likes u i know that for a change alot but like hes just wounderin to see what this will take him as in would he move on to keepsearching or is he gonna stay wit u? he really Likes ui not doubt bout that but hes also scared and nerveous thats y he sends u alot of one word texts....u just need to spend more time wit each other and bout a month or two he wont be too nervous and scared around u lol..
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): Some guys aren't really into the whole texting thing and tend to get bored. Why not call him?
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reader, xanthic +, writes (6 November 2010):
 This may hurt to hear, but usually when someone's interested in the conversation and the person they're having it with, they'll contribute more to it than terse one-word answers.
Does he ever ask you questions, or do you do most of the asking and carry most of the conversation? If he does, he may just be shy or doesn't really know what to say. If not, give up on him and move on.
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