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reader, soon567  +, writes (7 November 2010):
Nothing wrong with having limits in a relationship at all, even if he’s your husband you have boundaries. Never give an inch or he’ll take it further. You need to be stern and honest. I suggest you dump this guy because you and him don’t see sex on the same level here. He will introduce others later on. Will you mind if he brings in one for himself? We don’t usually do things that we don’t get anything out of, so what is your guy getting out of this? Most bisexual guys do this, but he could be straight. If you fuck his friend your relationship probably going to end anyway. Did you see the post on here where the guy talks his own wife into having sex with other men and then at the end he dumps her because he saw a whore? Respect yourself and others will respect you too.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (7 November 2010):
 Tell him "no" you're not going to do that. Then I would dump him, because he's a jerk anyway for suggesting something like that. That's how fights and jealousy get started when someone sleeps with another person..regardless of whether he wants to view it or not. It's really that simple.
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reader, Jammy1x +, writes (7 November 2010):
Jammy1x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think you's have it wrong, he wants me to have sex with his friend! infront of him ... I don't like it and I don't want to sleep with anyone else I just don't know how to tell him. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): what a stupid dumb boy your boyfriend is. How do you know the idea is for his friend to bring along a camera and next minute you find pictures are beamed around for all to see? Or they upload it to the internet? You will get a reputation as a slut. And is his friend paying to watch? Your boyfriend sounds like a pimp. And he is treating you like a prostitute. Ditch him immediately. He's am embarassment
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): I COMPLETELY agree with @B. Shakey...thats EXACTLY how my bf and I feel...we can even make out if my dog is in the same room as us...just the thought of her looking at us and sticking her nose in, is too much for both of us!What is wrong with your boyfriend??? How can he suggest such a thing? You might want to re-think this relationship...his motives and intentions are very questionable. No respect, no regard, no value for you...whatsoever. Its very possible that if you question him about this now, expressing your horror, he might try and laugh it off, saying he was kidding and how could you think he was serious about it. Please dont fall for that trap. Stay away from this guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): Don't do anything you don't want to do.
That said, some guys actually get turned on by the thought of other men sleeping with their partners. Google "cuckolding"... the results may surprise you
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reader, MsVick +, writes (7 November 2010):
 You have the right to say no and he should accept that answer and respect it. If he doesn't toss him he isn't worth worrying about.
Good luck
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reader, soon567 +, writes (7 November 2010):
Once you do it he'll always see you as a slut.
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reader, charliesdevil73 +, writes (7 November 2010):
 I just read about this in Jenny McCarthy's book, it's actually a fetish. As long as you're comfortable with it, go ahead. If you feel put off by it, don't do it. Tell him how you feel though and see how he reacts. If he seems extremely upset, dump him. If he understands and doesn't mention it again, don't worry about it.
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reader, alex74 +, writes (7 November 2010):
 Flush this turd and find yourself a new boyfriend. It's that simple. He is showing zero respect for you by wanting to display such an intimate act in front of a buddy of his.
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reader, evildrspock +, writes (7 November 2010):
 Sex is something personal, it seems you share this view, between 2 people. Tell him it's no one else's business.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 November 2010):
What a turn off! If you're not comfortable with it, then tell him no! What happens in the bedroom needs to stay in the bedroom between you two. Sex is an act when two become one. Three's just a crowd.
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reader, CandyKins +, writes (6 November 2010):
 Question is... do you want a threesome because even though the friend would just be watching it kind of is a threesome.
But I wouldn't do it if I were you because it may lead into something more and yet to come.. of something you wouldn't like.
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reader, sofirex  +, writes (6 November 2010):
 Jezus! are you crazy? you dont have to do this to yourself.. it doesnt look like he really respects you as a person. first of all tell us more, how long have you been together is it serious?
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