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writes:Hi there..I am a 19 yr. Old girl. I am in a relationship with my bf from last 2 years and i feel he doesnt care about me at all. I just want to seek advice from everyone regarding this.Whenever i go out with my guy friends or flirts with them..he doesnt get jealous at all. But when he does the same with other girls, i feel jealous and dont know why.! He never gets jealous. He is a shy guy.Another thing is that one day i found him staring at my chest and that day he told me to tuck my shirt properly in some public place. I did that. After that, i saw him staring at my chest again..i just smiled at that time and didnt say anything. When i asked about it later, he said a man was staring me like anything thats why he told me to tuck my shirt properly. He was so shy to tell me even this much. He is fine with other men staring at me. Now the problem is.. I dont understand how can he just bear that? I mean..if i would have been at his place..i had broken all bones of that man staring at my gf. I feel he is not protective at all. He never shows that he loves me. We never had sex. He does nothing to please me ever. We've just kissed and hugged. I feel he is not the one for me. He says he loves me and cant live without me. I also do. But i dont believe him. It hurts me to think this way.Now i am really confused. Please somebody help me. I'l be grateful to you for your valuable advice.Thanks.. :)
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (6 November 2010):
 For some people, words can be spewed as easily and effortlessly as spit. There lies no true meaning in his words. Right now, whatever he says to you is as hollow and heartless. What you want in a boyfriend cannot be found in this man and so, I suggest you leave him for your sake. He seems as though he simply wants you as his girlfriend so he can have a girlfriend but not because he loves you. Leave him and find someone who truly loves you and means every word he says.
I hope that helps.
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