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writes:I'm 23 and was reading an article about age on losing virginityhttp://abcnews.go.com/Health/Sex/story?id=3932047 and page=1I was late when it came to dating and I nearly lost it when I was 20. But everyone thinks if you haven't had sex when your at uni, you're either religious or a weirdo. I nearly lost it in a ne night stand but couldn't get an erection so I'd rather lose it with someone in a relationship.I'm now better at socialising with women and I have some knowledge (from that one nighter with foreplay) but considering how old I am, I wonder if its too late for me.How late is too late to lose your virginity?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2010): Never. Who cares what other people think, anyway?
I watched all my friends lose their virginity before me. Some waited even longer (not necessarily by their will lol).
The girl I ended up with is my wife and we have two children together. It's not the sex that matters, it's the bond, the relationship... the love that you end up with.
Don't be in such a darn hurry :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): I didnt lose mine until I was almost 21, and to be honest I didnt really regret my time previous to that. The problem is in most social groups and situations, it is treated as a competition rather than an intimate and meaningful experience. Quantity rather than quality, one night stands instead of relationships, when youve lost your virginity compared to how you lost it. Most people just dont have any idea what sex is to them, its just an action viewed by society as necessary in order to be considered "normal". Lose it to someone you care about, not a one night stand.
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reader, lacrymosa_652 +, writes (6 November 2010):
 It's never "too late" to lose your virginity. It may seem like everyone's lost it by a certain age but that doesn't hold true for everyone. Some people have sex for the first time in their teens, in their 20s, even 30s.. some people want to wait for marriage, which can be perceived as an outdated view but so what? It's every individual's choice.The first person who said "loosing at so late you might get attached to a person who doesn't love you" - i disagree, at any age you can get attached and whatever else they were saying.Anyway, to sum up, it's NOT too late and I really respect the fact that you're waiting to have sex with somebody you're in a relationship with. And I'm sure many other woman will also respect that.
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reader, Serpico  +, writes (6 November 2010):
I have never heard a women expressing regret about waiting for the right time/person. I have heard countless stories of the opposite.
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reader, Sapphire_torte  +, writes (6 November 2010):
 Hello,well, about losing virginity,I don't think that it's better to lose it before marriage. What would you give your virginity to someone that is not your life partner? Why would you give your ONLY virginity to someone that is just want you for sex not love? It's never too late to lose your virginity in my opinion. It's all about morality, why would you have sex before marriage? The answer is in you, it depends how you take care of your self.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): Be proud of yourself. You are not one of the immature trailer-trash rabbits who think they are failures unless they are bonking 24/7 from their adolescence, and cheating on their partners at whim. You are intelligent and disccerning. You will eventually be a great partner to someone. Just keep reading up about foreplay and how to meet, talk to, connect with, get involved with, sustain a relationship. There is no shame in waiting. Pat yourself on the back for your good upbringing.
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reader, lollipop86  +, writes (6 November 2010):
I think it is better not to rush into losing your virginity, you only lose it once in your life so what is the point in losing it to a meaningless one night stand? Hold out for that special person because your first time will stay in your mind forever :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): well its never too late but.. the only problem you might have is losing it to the wrong person. remember most of us loose our virginity in our teens.. a age where no one is relay looking for a relation ship and a age where it doesn't relay matter if the person loves you are not cause you have your hole life ahead of you but loosing at so late you might get attached to a person who doesn't love you. But that guy who finally goes there just might marry you.
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