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I'm caught up in 3 different situations!

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Question - (6 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm a 15 year old female and I'm also bi. I'm so confused right now. It's a basic question: What do you do when you're still in love with your first love,(of course) really really like another girl, and dating a guy that you sort of like. Is this wrong...?

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A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (6 November 2010):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntYou should not be dating unless you are absolutely sure otherwise, it would be unfair to everyone, including yourself.

Talk to both of them, seperately and see which one you really feel something for, in which case I advise you to just go for it.

I hope that helps.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010):

Is it wrong to date multiple people at once? I don't know about 'wrong' but it is certainly disrespectful.

You can't just lead two people on. You are currently dating someone. You CANNOT get involved with another person whilst this is so.

You have feelings for someone else that are stronger than for your current squeeze. So do the right thing and end it with at least one of them.

Besides... you are too young to be doing any of this. Hell, you are too young to even call yourself gay, bi or straight. You can't really do that until you have finished puberty and your mind is no longer clouded by the heady haze of hormones.

Flynn 24

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