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writes:me and my fiance have been together for almost 4years and we have 3 kids and a eldrely grandma to take care of we are not as intimate as we wre in the beginning we might have sex once a month if that she hardly goes anywhere but stays on the phone all day long talking to friends shes not hiding it or being sneaky and i know almost who it is she tajks to all the time but im 47 and shes 26 she wants to marry but im scared she will leave sooner or later but we was very intimate in the beginning but now we dont do anything that much
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): thanks to all of you who had advice i know she loves me and to make a correction only one child is biologically mine bt i consider the other two mine also and the situation with my grandma is a lot to handle i do most of the work with her and my lady helps but most of her time is dealing with the kids we both are not working so we are here most of the time and that can get old very fast my granny has dementia and needs 24 hr care so i chose to do it and live in the home with her nstead of a nursing homeand its really hard i just wonder whats going to happen when she bcomes bedridden and things get harder i just know that if its too much for me at 47 my lady plays it off real good for 26
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): Me and my fiance have 3 kids... WTF, you've had 3 kids and you've not gotten married... yep, she'll leave...
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reader, petina1  +, writes (6 November 2010):
 Lots of things in the way of your relationship, kids, grandma , age difference. Against all the odds do you think this can survive. Being on the phone, or internet or texting mates all day long seems to be the generation thing these days, so that's quite normal. Is the kids, grandma and you getting neglected in other ways. How's the house being run, do you work, lots of things to consider. If she can communicate with friends all day long, then unplug the phone sometime and ask her to communicate with you. I see that with some men that they can cope with most things but not the lack of excitement in the bedroom. If thats the only thing worrying you then you should look again at your role in the household. Lots of responsibility there and if your fiance is looking after everyone, that would be the last thing on her mind, she may be too tired. You could always help out with the running of the chores, grandma etc. Make things easier that way. But i don't know what that situation is, just you have lots in your way, maybe at the end of the day, this just doesnt suit you and you will have to evalue what it is you really want. Good Luck
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