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writes:I've been going out with this guy for a couple months, but I caught him cheating on me. Worse part is that it was my best friend I saw him with. He was kissing her, and just yesterday he told me he loved me. So much for that. But sadly, I still like him. I don't know what to do.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 November 2010):
Teenage boys can be extremely cruel and immature when they're at their worst. And some teenage girls can be blind to it.
I'm afraid that you've been taken in by both your boyfriend, who is a liar, who is cruel, and who has no real respect for you, and you've also been taken in by your best friend, who is blind to this guy.
Both of the, have betrayed you in a way that suggests they don't care at all. The best thing you can do is have nothing to do with either of them anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): I haven't read what other people have said, but I hope you will be open to this... you absolutely need to walk away with pride. I can tell you from experience that it is so important to have the courage to stand up for yourself now and from here forward. You can do it in a low key way that won't create drama. Believe in yourself. Try to keep in mind that it's just a part of growing up and nothing that you did wrong. Good luck.
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reader, cheekyfriday  +, writes (6 November 2010):
i think this is more a lesson for you to question what are you going to do about your best friend? Men come and go especially at your age, sorry to say but it is rare to stay with a childhood sweetheart in adulthood. However this best friend can be your best friend for life.
Does she know you know?
Its got nothing to do with him and you as that is pretty much over rover, yep you like him cause you didnt expect him to do this, and he will do it again, but maybe with someone you dont know.
So what are you going to do about your BEST friend? I would hate her for it, she is meant to be the one you go to when you need support, but you can't cause she slimmed all over your boyfriend.
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reader, sari1983  +, writes (6 November 2010):
You are deserved to get a better guy. You are just 15, it is still long way to decide to which guy you would spend the rest of your life. Show your power, self esteem and maturity by dumping your boyfriend and your worstfriend calmly!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): yes he cheated but look into your self and see if you did something to push him in your fried arms you said he said he love's you did you tell him back or show that you love him????
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 November 2010):
 Well if he loves you so much why was he kissing your best friend? It takes 2 to tango, you're best friend had a hand in this too. If she was any kind of friend she wouldn't kiss your boyfriend. Best friend's boyfriends are off limits, every girl knows that. Dump them both, because you can't trust either of them.
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