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writes: My lover dumped me 3 weeks ago,he said he needed some space and time to think things out etc.I have left him alone but i am heartbroken, anyway he has gone on a website that i go on and he goes in a profile pretending he is someone else...he befriended me and has sent me a few emails asking how i am, what am i up too.What i want to know is...why is he going in a fake profile,asking me questions when he has finished with me? I dont understand? Im making out that i dont know its him in that pretendy profile....Do you think he is testing the waters to see how i am? What is he playing at? Does he want me back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): I'd start up a conversation about the asshole you were dating and how life was so much better now. See what he says...Have some fun at his expense, and move on with life... he's not worth it. Find someone who loves you and enjoy yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): Birdy: love the idea!
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reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (6 November 2010):
Bahahaha....Birdy! You owe me a keyboard!
I think the others are right he isnt sure.... He wants to have an in if he decides he wants to come back. Block him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): This guy is totaly immature,seems he dont want you and no one else to want you yet he dumped you,forget his fake profile as it shows what a fake he really is also a stalker kick him his fake profile and anything else into the ocean maybe he`ll find a creature just like himself
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (6 November 2010):
it sounds like he is testing you,because if he is seeing someone else he would be far awayand not bothering to contact you atall
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reader, shania +, writes (6 November 2010):
This fella sounds a right tit.He hasn't got the guts to contact you as himself so uses a fake profile to see what you are up too...why? He was the one who dumped you, you have given him space yet he still wants to know whats going on in your life.Maybe he gets a big ego boost when he reads that you are heartbroken over him...that you want him back.
This man is immature lacks backbone and hasn't got a clue on how relationships work.If i was you, i would stop all contact with him and find a man and yes i said a real man, not a little boy...and have a proper,healthy relationship that you deserve, not a dick like him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): Its vanity. He thought you would contact him and you havent. So hes sniffing around, trying to find out whats more interesting than he is! Just delete him, hes not worth your time x
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (6 November 2010):
This guy dumped you. Now he is being sneaky and cruel by spying on YOU, his ex, and you are wondering if he wants you back? WOW! What are you thinking? Why would you want HIM back? To get hurt AGAIN?
Sorry - But if I had this tool for revenge - I'd mess with his head big time. Tell him ALL about the JERK you just dated; how he was bad in bed and how you were two-timing him with your boss at the same time. Then tell him that you'd like to meet him for drinks with you and your girlfriend who is into threesomes; which you missed terribly when you where dating that sexually repressed ex boyfriend - and wait at the bar with 20 of your closest friends and have a good laugh when the loser shows up. Hell hath to fury like a woman scorned. Yeah, I probably wouldn't ever have the nerve to do it either - but it's a nice dream - getting your's back!!!
But, honestly, don't waste any more of your time on this jerk and cut you online ties with him today...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI did pour out my heart to him, i said i missed him and couldn't understand why he finished with me? He asked me if i wanted to move on? and i said i had no choice. But i did say that if it kept going on with no contact then i will start to lose all feelings for him...he said then he probably does miss me and that he might get in touch again.I just think its bizarre this whole thing.I will give it another week and then if i dont hear nothing then i shall ignore his other pathetic, fake id.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): who knows what his motivation? Do you want him back? Or are you done with him? If you want him back why not pour out your heart to the fake profile and tell him all the reasons it went wrong, how it could have been better, and what needed to change? But if you dont want him back then just block him
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reader, petina1 +, writes (6 November 2010):
He could be testing you, to see if you have been cheating on him or something like that. It's funny how a lot of these columns are similar, when someone breaks up with someone theres always dodgy goings on online. He must have been dabbling on this site for quite some time behind you back, getting up to no good. If it's the only silly way he can communicate with you with disregard to your strong feelings for him, you may have to tell him to 'Get Lost' through the channel he understands via text. Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): He's probably just being nosey trying to find out what you're up to etc... Why would you add him anyway?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): are u sure its ur ex? its possible he does want u back but may want to know what u r really like as a person before he makes a move.i did this myself to someone i was with several times and soon became the ex.this was a bit different to u, as we were together and she swore her flirt sites were only a joke.
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