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I have a constant fear that my penis is too small!

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Question - (11 May 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my penis is around 8 inches long and 6.5 around and i read that is kinda ideal size but i constantly have this fear that i m small or something. what can i do to make it go away?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010):

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thanks a lot guys.

also for retarded comment from anonym before person12345.

I m asking for help not for stupidity.

I think you got some issues about your size too but yours are more physical...

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (11 May 2010):

person12345 agony auntThat's actually much larger than average. Most women don't even want anything bigger than 6 or 7 long because it hits their cervix and it's painful. I have no idea where this idea that women want a huge dick comes from (porn maybe?) but a large one actually hurts and makes sex an ordeal sometimes. Like it takes so much "warm up" and lube to get it in that most would really prefer an average sized one. Though of course I can't speak for all women. Bigger is NOT better for most though. Cerberus makes a lot of really good points. Though in response to the breast size thing, our breast size is a much worse insecurity because our breast size is always visible to everyone else, plus our breasts are considered a main part of our body appearance. Penis size is really only visible when naked and doesn't contribute to how your whole body looks.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010):

you are either a lier, or just too stupid to really measure your dick. Only about 1 in 1000 men have 8" or more. Average is 5-6". So complaining about a small dick leads me to believe this post is bogus, or maybe you really have 8cm?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (11 May 2010):

Honeypie agony aunt8 inches is NOT small.. Average is 6 inches.

So stand tall and be proud of the junk in your trunk.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010):

You can't, that's a natural insecurity we guys have because we're told constantly in many ways that size matters and it does to a certain degree. It's similar to the insecurity that women have about their weight, although that insecurity is far worse because women are constantly bombarded with images and ideas that skinny is beautiful, when we all know it's only one form of beauty.

You're a good size but even if you were smaller it wouldn't matter too much.

It really doesn't matter to most women as much as performance does, I have a friend with an abnormally small penis 3 inches erect and he's married now 5 years and has no problem pleasing his wife or having children.

Women like big penis' because they create greater sensation during pentration, they 'fill them' if you know what I mean and hit more spots at the same time but this also means that the potential for pain is greater and so a guy with a big one has to be more tentative in his use of it.

Guys that I know with big ones like the reaction they get from girls but when it comes to the act they often find it a hindrance as they can't really have rough sex without it creating too much pain or damage. So they're limited to slow and easy with most girls.

The penis insecurity is like womens breast insecurity, supposedly bigger is better, but you know this isn't true as us guys like all shapes and sizes of breast, well the same is true for women and penis'. Variety is the spice of life.

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