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writes:I am only 14 years old and i have 34 DD boobs, they are the biggest in my year, i used to like them but now in the summer when i want to wear vest tops they look huge and they are really pert and they just sit their..my friends are jelous but i am scared about as i get older they might get bigger and i will end up with saggy boobs which i really dont wont..also the lads really stair at them i have reasently noticed some stretch marks and was wondering is their anything to make them less visual ? please comment thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everlast, all try that x
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reader, everlast  +, writes (29 May 2010):
 I had your problem as well constant stares after awhile i noticed ppl looking id smartly say there real if thats what your thinking. And for stretch marks use alovera or cocoabutter cream it helps alot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni think thats my problem because i am really slim i am a size 8/10 and have these big things
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (11 May 2010):
 Try not to worry too much hun, I know how you feel and I promise it gets better! When I was your age I was a 34D and remained that way until I put on a bit of weight recently and they got bigger so I am now 34DD!
You will be pleased to know mine are not saggy and I am 23! Yes they may droop when we get into our 40's after kids but this happens to ALL women if they breastfeed, regardless of their bra size. Stretch marks thankfully do fade from that nasty purple colour into a more whitish, translucent shade so you can barely notice them (only when you stare hard enough). Cocoa butter is said to work on stretch marks but I have never really used anything on mine long term, they have just faded as I've got older and now they are not really a big deal. I do look at them from time to time and wish they were not there but it is a part of being a woman I'm afraid - when boobs get so big at a young age skin just has to stretch! But most girls have them, and boys never notice them (when you are naked all the guy is looking at is your body and how gorgeous you are, not some tiny little marks he can hardly even see!).
I think the main thing you can do is make sure you wear a properly fitting bra which is underwired and supports you properly. Try and get your bra size measured around twice a year at your age to make sure you are wearing the right size - this is the best way to prevent saggy boobs, by wearing a good bra!
At the moment everything will seem out of proportion, your body will still be a teenagers body yet you have a woman's boobs. The next few years will be a bit awkward I'm afraid but you will eventually "grow into them" and they wont look so huge! I remember thinking the same thing as you - all my vest tops looked silly because I had these huge boobs spilling out! But now they look in proportion to me, yes they are big but they suit my shape and dont look silly like they used to! So I know this is a rubbish answer because you want to know what you can do now but really time is the only answer and eventually it will all sort itself out!
Clothing is also another way to help in this situation - and one lesson I learned, never wear polo necks or shallow round/scoop necks as they make you boobs look bigger! Try and always go for V necks as this cut flatters larger boobs. Never show legs and boobs at the same time - so no short skirts and low cut tops, only one or the other. Try and layer your clothes when possible, so when you are wearing a vest top try putting a thin cardigan over the top which will distract attention away from your boobs.
I hope this helps a little bit and try not to worry so much, eventually your body will become more in proportion and your boobs wont look so out of place!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, Confused999999 +, writes (11 May 2010):
I promise you will love them one day =) I'm a 32FF and 19, i hated them a few years ago but now that I know how to drsss them to impress I love it.
Moisturise or get some cream to help the stretch marks - but dont panic they are not the end of the world...
Wear the correct size bra, how ever it makes you feel... wearing the wrong one, and one without proper support, can make them look ridiculous and give you a very bad back...
I agree not to flaunt them as though you want them to get attention, but don't hide them. They are a part of your physical appearance and you really should love yourself =D
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reader, LilPixie +, writes (11 May 2010):
 I feel your pain, when i was your age i had around the same size as you, maybe even a little bigger. I'm 18 now, they've gone up and down in size since then and are an F atm. I used to get bullied for the size of my boobs and tried to hide them as much as possible. They may the biggest in your year, but you're not the only one with that problem. Learn to love them the way they are. I know they can be a pain, especially as it's hard to find tops that fit around there. Don't worry about what to wear, as long as you don't wear anything that shows them off too much and wear a bra that gives you the support you need, you'll be fine.
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reader, Midge +, writes (11 May 2010):
 I know where you are coming from because i had the same problem when I was at school. The guys used to look at me all the time and I became very self conscious about them. I used to wear thick jackets and baggy jackets during the summer so that you couldnt see them. I hated them!!
I soon figured out that, if that was all that people could see about me, then they just werent worth it. At this point in your life, there isnt a lot you can do to stop them growing, or hide them etc, but you can learn to dress so that they dont stick out as much. Dont wear tight clothing, wear shirts and vest tops that arent tight but a little loose. Its also about colours. Wear darker colours on the top and brighter colours on the bottom because darker colours will make them just a little less obvious.
At the end of the day its not what you got, its who you are. Boys will be boys and they will stare if you allow them to be obvious by wearing clothes that are tight, but just accepting what you have for the moment and understanding that your body is going through changes that will take a while to complete. Once those changes are complete, then you can relook at yourself and if you are still unhappy with your breast size, a doctor will consider you for a breast reduction. I know a few people that have had breast reductions because they were in the same boat, but you wont know and wont understand fully what you have until you are older.
I am 34 and I still have big breasts, but you know what, I take them as they are because thats what God gave me. And if someone wants to look and stare, I'll give them something to stare at, and it wont be my breasts! I am a 36 FF and I hate having big breasts because I cant always wear what I want, but rather what I should. Dont let other people make you miserable because they are staring at your breast size. Unfortunately there are some of us who God gave a little too generously too, and those that God was a little too stingy with, but we have to accept who we are and what we are before we can ask others to accept who and what we are.
Hell, be pleased with what you have. Dress to the occasion and in 5 years time, I bet you will feel very different about what you have!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (11 May 2010):
 Be proud of your "twins " and think of how many women spend thousand of pounds to get a pair like yours. On the other end, don't exactly flaunt them, don't wear anything too low cut because visually there is something like "too much of a good thing ".
For the stretch marks you've got,there is not much you can do. There are medical procedures to make them less visible,but they are way too expensive as compared to their effectiveness. You can prevent,though, getting new ones by keeping your weight stable ( avoid loosing or gaining weight in too short time ) and by keeping your skin always elastic and hydrated. There are stretch marks prevention creams that women use during pregnancy and I found them to be quite effective. Ask your chemists.
As for sagging,well, in time it's inevitable , it's part of growing older,you won't be 14 forever. Accept philosophically the process :) You can delay it and contain it by keeping a correct posture , exercisng your pectorals ( which obviously ,being muscle, have got nothing to do with the fat mass of the breasts per se, but create a nice visual impression of "support" ) and ,again, keeping your skin elastic.
But most importantly, don't feel that you have to match some absurd notion of perfect, ever-pert,unblemished breasts ( or any body parts ). Women in magazines look so great just because of photoshop, real life is different.
Take good care of your body, but love it, always and anyway, no matter the shape or size.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010): Go up a size when you buy shirts, esp. stretchy ones, if the shirt has to stretch at all to get over your boobs, it draws attention :/Get a bra fitting, ya it means going to an un-cute bra shop and that is embarrassing, but good bras = no sagging later and maybe less stretch marks too. And once you get fitted for a size then you can go online and look for better cuter bras in the right size.
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