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*lexia846
writes:okay so i dated someone 28 yrs for four yrs. He always wanted "space" and finally now that he finished school and got his friends and a good job he decided he wants space again. this time i did not crawl back to him , and after bitter arguments and me ignoring him he wrote this:"Okay well i'm here for you if you wanna grab a coffee or a movie,i'm available or if you need anything. Dont hesitate to ask me, I love being free but i hate not being able to see how you r doing. I am going to the gym and walk outside more often its nice having free time to myself thats all. thats what makes e happy it has nothing to do with you, sorry i have been dragging thing its probably cause i felt bad did not mean bad"So he wants to hang out after we bicked and fought and he called me all the words in the dictionary. According to him our relationship ended a while ago but then again he never sat down with me and talked with me..he still said i love you and stuff... i dont get it, does he still have feelings? i told him not to contact me again because i am extremely hurt and he has not ever since i turned us being friend down. its been a week and its killing me.... i know i relationship wasnt great towards the last couple of months but we never offiacially ended it, he decide upon himself, yet he still acted like we were together up until i questioned and said i wasnt gonna take him flipping out on me for no reason anymore..thats when it blew up and he said he needed space and then he said he did see us in the future together.. his storry since last month has changed 33333333 million times to blaming me, to calling me a cunt, to saying i give him anxiety,to blaming me for not loosing weight or changing my ways or becoming independent etc...Long story short he calls me to saying lets go for a drink and still keep in touch to be friends? i dont get it how can you get over someone so quickly or better yet does he wanna see if the grass on the other side is grreeener and if it doesnt work come back? since i've always begged for him most of the timesMind you last month he said we needed space and then he called back saying you've been on my mind i cant stop thinking lets just figure out something" this time though he hasnt called back ever since i said no friendship leave me alone i am hurtwill he?he is 28 i'm 24please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): I am gunna be real straight up!!!! Build a bridge and get over it including this guy.
You sound like a really nice person who wants the best in life. Unfortunately this guy gets off on knowing that you will get on bended knees and beg" thats really degrading". Then he has the nerve to put you down and make you feel like utter shit, you deserve better!! way better you just need to believe in your self.
He is just fucking with your head and is honestly not worth yours or anyones time.
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reader, alexia846 +, writes (12 May 2010):
alexia846 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsome please give me some advice!!! please
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