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male
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30-35,
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writes:Hello,I have been single for a while now and every once in a while I meet a fantastic woman. Now im not searching or anything, but Im not one to pass up opportunity. My standards are somewhat high I guess but since Im not wanting to rush into a relationship I suppose this is good.Now back to the problem: every woman I meet that I have interest in is either A: not interested in me (which is fine) or B: Has a boyfriend. Now most often its case B. I dont get it, almost every girl who I am interested in has a boyfriend. For me this is a run away sign and I soon drop any notions of having a relationship with this person and just remain friends.Very recently I met another woman. She seems super nice and has a lot of qualities that I admire. More importantly we share enormous amount of interests (which never has been a problem in the past but its a nice change - my ex and I did not share many interests). Anyway to wrap things up, she seems like the kind of girl I want to date and has many interests which we share. A perfect "dream girl" if you will. We speak often and met on occasion. I just found out via facebook she is in a relationship. Which I think was posted today. Should I drop this girl too? Was this a subtle sign to me? Should I ask/confront her about it? Or should I give up throw the towel and just remain friends.Women's input greatly appreciated :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010): The things you like in these girls are the same things their boyfriend sees in them. You just have to get lucky and find one you like that hasn't got one. For some reason, the harder you look the harder it seems to find one. When you next see her I causally ask about her boyfriend, and see what she says, it might be something serious or it might not.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 May 2010):
She has a boyfriend, so you have to let this one go too. I spent ages trying to ask women out. Then one day I stopped looking and found the one is was looking for. If you look too hard, or if you place all these nice girls on a pedestal too much, you won't find the right one. You need to take a step back, look carefully at the type you're attracted to and take it easy. The right one is out there. You just have to relax more and be careful that you're not putting all these women on a pedestal.
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