A
female
age
51-59,
*alisa
writes: I dont know what to do? Have been with my partner or 3 years. We dont live together.He brought his ex wife to this country last year. DId not tell her that I excisted. He wanted to see i they could get back together. After 8 months..it "all" came out in the open. He said that he wanted me in his life..this he said to both of us at the same time.She left to go to her home country for ten weeks and now she is back. She has sold her home and wants to stay here.They have a teenage daughter that lives with her dad. She feels that she is entitled to stay with them..in the same bed...until she finds her on place. I know she plans to stay there for at least another 6 months.My partner says that it is his fault for bringing her here in the first place.He tells me to relax as it is me that he loves. He stays one night a week with me..and the rest with his ex and daughter.I feel a total fool for putting up with this whole issue.I feel that I am the other woman. She divorced him in the first place. I could so do with some advice.I live in a small town...and I know that the whole situation is a major chatting topic and is very embarrissing.
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