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writes:"OPs own title" I really need this question answered and taken seriously. There is this guy, and i have like him for nearly 3 years. He's my high school crush if i were to put it that way. Lately, we've been talking loads every night on IM and we have a laugh. My friend at first is like.. he really likes you I can tell.. but then as i watch him, he will be with most girls and my friend is like, he likes to flirt with everyone. But then he will act shy around me and try to bring up conversation but sometimes he can be really quiet around me. I need an insight on how a boy would want a girl to act if she had really liked him for this long and he had no idea and she had no idea how he felt? please help. x
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reader, Boombadaboom  +, writes (12 May 2010):
 I'll keep it short.
I think he just feels comfortable around you enough and you've got the permission to go into a deeper level friendship, probably because he trusts you. That's what I make out of what you've written here. Someone acting shy around you possibly means that they're scared of messing something up which they hope can be really good. So my advice is go for it. Be careful 'how' you go for it but you've definitly got an opportunity there. Maybe flirting is just a cover for loneliness or just to make everyone see that he's somebody, but that's just a wild guess.
My advice is: act like who you are but just do it a bit stronger then you usually do and try to build the friendship even more. From what I see, you've got a bigger chance then any other girl around and that's probably because of who you are. Just be yourself, only a lot more of it :)
Have fun and good luck! xx :)
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reader, raiders  +, writes (11 May 2010):
 I think you should ask him how he feels about you. You said he is shy and might not know how to approach you. I'm not sure how you want to act around him but if you want him to make the move than you might want to be a flirty with him. Good Luck help this helps.
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