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*oniqueEE
writes:Ok so I'm having a little trouble getting over my breakup but I already know that I'm a strong person who wants to continue with life because it existed before the relationship and sure will after.The problem is losing a friend. I became best friends with him, he was my go to guy. Told him a lot, and he confided in me. Throughout the whole relationship we were always friends first. I feel that I've lost that now.When we broke up initially, he kept in touch... everyday. He'd call, ask me out to dinner all sorts. We'd laugh, but then I realised I wasnt ready and so broke it off.I've had some time and told him that I was ok with a little bit of contact, but now I dont think he's so responsive. I feel we've lost each other, and I've never really lost a friend before so it actually hurts worse.What happened? Being friends with me first was his priority throughout and after the relationship. Is it true ex's can never be friends?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 May 2010):
It's generally true that ex's can't remain friends. I think he's now trying to move on, and I think you need to do the same. You are going to lose him. I not now, in the future when he gets another girlfriend. So might just as well be now. Time to move on.
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