A
female
age
30-35,
*33
writes:I'm 16 and just started dating my first boyfriend. I'm comfortable around him and we seem to get along great BUT he says i'm really quiet... specially around him. We've been dating for 2 weeks now, going on 3, and I think this could cause a problem. I'm a shy person but i don't think i'm shy around hin. I can be loud, and have been around him. I just don't understand why he is saying this.(Its really bothering me) He says i talk a lot on FB and text messages but not in person. Sometimes I am quiet around him but that's because I don't have anything to say or I feel awkward (considering the fact that he's my first bf and i don't really know how to act) Do you guys think this is just a phase? Will this 'shyness' go away? Its making me not want to talk to him.
View related questions:
shy, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Danielle333 +, writes (12 May 2010):
hi...i think that it will i am 16 aswell and when i had my first boyfriend i was all ways shy not knowing what to say scared i would say the wronge thing or do the wronge thing and my ex use to say the same thing cause i like to text and message him on facebook....but i soon became diffrent cause i started to talk to him more on the phone then messaging him and he enjoyed that cause he wanted to hear my voice...i think that it will go away plus this is your first boyfriend change it up a little bit and call him on the phone so he can hear your voice and you will see how much it can change
|
