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writes:I have been dating my girlfriend for 10 months. She is 29, has a 2 yr old, I am 26, we now live together. She has somewhat of a past, I have had people tell me about things I really wouldn't want to hear. I have put that aside but lately I have been having issues. I have been cheated on before but this was a long time ago. I really don't know why I am having trust issues. She talks to most of her exes still and wants to hang out with them. She always invites me to go but still I find myself feeling insecure. I have found myself looking through her phone and seeing that she deletes text messages etc. Bottom line, these issues are with me. I am not sure what to do because I don't want to lose the women I love. She wants to go to a party memorial day weekend that her ex is having, and wants me to come. I know we will be drinking and I don't want to get insecure when I see her talking, perhaps flirting with him. It seems like it will be an uncomfortable situation. Please give me some advice on how to get over my issues so I can move forward in our relationship. We have talked marriage, kids, etc. I really don't want to mess this up but find it eating at me inside.
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reader, Xtina356 +, writes (11 May 2010):
It's Memorial Day weekend and the two of you can do whatever you want to do, and she has decided that the best thing to do is go to her ex's party? Tell her that the thought of going to this party is the equivalent to getting a root canal for you. I would come up with a better idea that you can both enjoy together.
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