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26-29,
*issyNovelist
writes:Well, for my teacher (that I have a major crush on), I want to get him a gift for the end of the year. Just a little something to say "Heyy, thanks for putting up with my mental retardation when it comes to this class and all the lunch hours you spent explaining! And thanks for all those times, because I understood the material, but I just wanted to be with you one on one"Yeah, something that says all that. I also don't want him to know that I have this mega crush on him, or that I'm in love with him.He likes coffee (one sugar, one cream) and he's a science teacher...and yeah... he cant know I love him in the process of this gift. So it has to be cautious, but something that says thanks....
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reader, Xx-Scorpio-xX  +, writes (12 May 2010):
 I don't think theres anything wrong in getting your teacher a present. Maybe something such as a mug with something which says "best techer" or "thank you" on it? :)or prehaps a thank you card and some chocolate?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): Put the first sentence but not the second, unless you want to embarrass yourself. Find someone your own age who is free to be with you. You could get him a gift voucher for a posh coffee in town: some of the coffee shops sell them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): Hi there
You remind me of me four years ago :P
I wanted to do the exact same thing :P
THe thing is though, if you don't want him to know that you have feelings for him you shouldn't get him a gift. Teachers are VERY used to having students with crushes. And over the years they tend to develop perceptions of students who like them, meaning- the behaviour you put off towards him unintentionally might triggor him already knowing that you have a crush.
The gift would be a bad idea, for now. I'm not saying you're young and naive but he will look at this gift from you as something more because you're young. In another years time then maybe get him a gift. You can always tell him in person that you're greatful for his help.
Just make sure you don't become too obsessed around him because it would be bad if he found out. They tend to pull away, leave the school, you're asked to change classes etc. This doesn't always happen with younger years though. Jusr warning you.
So for now the gift wouldn't be such a good idea. Just wait until you build your teacher student relationship.
This just advice by the way, from my experiences. Do what you will :)
Goodluck-
~Tevote.
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