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*rBrightside90
writes:Ok here is the situation;Ive been together with this girl for over a year, when she broke up with me. She had all kind of issues, like anorexia, etc.After the break up I decided to forget about her and move on, but now about 6 months later she has initiated contact again. After going out for a few drinks she was very passionate that night, and we ended up kissing and fooling around.Now some weeks later she just wants to be friends, and she claims that she needs me in her life.I really like her, and Im not sure what to do. Should I just stay friends hoping for more and get disappointed or leave her, any ideas ?Thanks alot :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): If she just wants to be friends and she needs u in her life then I think that's all this will ever be, a good/best friend. You can remain in her life but I think you should carry your love interests elsewhere. It may be a good idea to talk to her about it (in a calm but serious way) and if she gives u a mixed answer or a "no" then you'll know for sure shes not looking for what you are.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (11 May 2010):
 Why don't you try talking to her and ask her what is it she wants from you. If she wants to be friends than you will know and you might not put any feelings in it, but if she wants a relationship and your all for it than you guys can start fresh. She told you she wants to be friends but I think you should ask her straight out that way you know what to expect.
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reader, purple_butterfly  +, writes (11 May 2010):
Don't take the way that might leave you disappointed, sad and lonely. Don't emotionally attach yourself so much. She just seems to be using you because she probably knows you care about her. I really have a feeling that she might leave you again.If you can be friends with her and not hope for more, then go ahead. Orelse just leave it.
I hope that helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010): Hello,
Go slow, and see what happens. You still have feelings for her, and she's claimed she needs you in her life. Time will tell.
Good luck
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