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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Dear reader ( i guess)any ways here's the thing i've known this guy since i was 17 thought the internet and we were friends for almots 5 yrs now( im 22 now) this year he conformed his love to me and i love him too but he lives far away so it's basically a long distance relationship , we talk to each other everyday through the phone at least twice a day.lately i have doubts about him , i think i know him but im not sure any more some times when i call him i feel like im bothering him, for the past 2 days i think i want to break up with him but there is no reason to so i just dunno what to think any more .
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (12 May 2010):
 No LDR can stay a LDR forever. Have you discussed the feasibility of actually living together at some point ?
When that could happen ? In one year, in two years, in five years ? Who would be moving , and could he or she find work in the partner's area ? Have you had, or will you have, enough chances to meet in person and get to know each other in real life ?
Without the above, it's not a real relationship, it's just a romantic dream that at some point you have to let go. Might as well right now, if there is no workable plan for you to be together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2010): This is a long time to stay so far apart. Why haven't you made a bigger commitment to each other? Could one of you move to be with the other?
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