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30-35,
*aiting for an angel
writes:Ok my ex broke up w me a few wks ago, because he said he didnt love me anymore. We were together for about 10 mths, im currently 7mths pregnant. We argued alot and broke up several times during our relationship but we really loved each other. Recently he told me he thought we still had a chANce in the future, he said he didnt know how will get there but we would , hes talked to me a few times but we havent hung out yet. I want to know how i can win his heart again , and if i should contact him or wait for him to contact me .
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (12 May 2010):
 Wait for him to contact you . This way you would know if he still loves you and want you back.
If you contact him , he might treat you like rubbish.
If you want to win his heart back,you will need to be more submissive and stop arguing with him on minor things.Walk the extra miles for him.
You both are very young and inexperienced and you will both make plenty of mistakes in your relationship. Try to forgive whenever possible.
It is not about who is right or wrong but about preserving a good relationship.
What good is right if you break up in your relationship? You could be arguing over some mundane and unimportant things.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (12 May 2010):
 why do you want to win someone back who doesn't love you?
I know you are very vunerable and emotional now, but you have to be strong for you and your baby.
You can create a better life for both of your without him.
Don't be afraid that no one will love you as a single Mom.
One day, when you least expect it, you have find a man that truly loves you for who you are.
Even if you do everything to get him back. His heart will not belong to you. He will cheat, and treat you less than you deserve.
Move on. Concentrate on yourself and your future with your baby.
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reader, malibu1 +, writes (11 May 2010):
tell him yu think yall should try again but in a different way this time talk dont fight and dont get mad over little stuff.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (11 May 2010):
 Winning his heart is one thing.... figuring out what the two of you have to do to stay together and not fight all of the time is another thing. One of the biggest problems with couples who fight constantly is neither wants to admit they are at fault. Without knowing too many of your relationship details, all I can suggest is being honest. Admit you've made mistakes, and tell him none of that matters now. Tell him you really want him in your life and you're willing to do what it takes to try to make it work.
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