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writes:It all started as a happy relationship between me and my gf until she started hanging around other guys. now at first i didnt mind, cuz she only befriended them so she can get me jealous. then eventually it started bothering me cuz the guys tried kissing her. soo i started talking to the other guys and they told me she didnt tell them she had a boyfriend.now that they know most of them dont want to be my gf's friend. now at first i was happy about that but now i feel bad cuz they were close friends and i made the same mistake with a girl in our relationship.weeks later she broke up with so she could go out with some other guy dat goes to her skool. this was kinda depressing since we have to go to camp that weekend, or was it? now at camp me and my ex were all alone, soo she walked up to me and made out with me and told me she loved me. now i was shocked cuz she told me in our old relationship she would never cheat on me.3 days later she sends me a text asking me back. should i take her back? ps. we had been together for 6 months
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010): im going through the same thing basicly i think you should take her back but be weary of her actions tell her sence she didnt tell those guys she didnt have a boyfreind you cant trust her as much as you did quite yet until she shows you shes trustworthy and if she dosent accept that well what does that say? it just means she isnt willing to go through things for you and she isnt worth it
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (11 March 2010):
 It depends of if you forgive her. It will always be in your mind now that she will cheat on you.
Dont just take her back for the sake of having a girlfriend, make sure its what you really want and if you do decide then just take things slow and easy.
If she starts flirting with other boys again then dump her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2010): Honestly, its all up to you here. Sometimes love can be given a second chance and turn out wonderfully and other times it just doesnt. This girl needs to get her crap together before she can go out with a great person like you! You may be taking the risk to get hurt again. Maybe just be friends for a while and get close to make sure that she will be the one before you start dating.
best of luck! please update on how it turns out!
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