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writes: I just need here advice please. Im 40 years old, i have 3 children, the youngest is 12. Im wishing too deep in my heart to have another baby. But my Husband dont want to have a baby anymore. I insist. he said i should give him two years time to think about it. if were going to have a baby again or not anymore. In two years, but im now 40 in two years im gonna be 42 i have a feeling i can not get pregnant anymore when i reach 42. Im capable and have enough income to have another Child. I dont wanna cheat on my Husband just to fullfill what i want. But he made his decision and i know my Husband, its not going to change. I cant handle his mind so i made my decision, I want to forget about this. I want to stop thinking of having a baby again because i know its not going to work anymore. But its making me only desperate and deepress. Its really making my feeling very down. Is anybody here can give me a key word to convince me or my head not to have a baby anymore. Please give me a negative thought so i will not think anymore of having a baby. I know all this stuff like sending the Child everyday in the School, wake up early, etc. etc. I know all this stuff because i have it already before. But that's not makes me stop thinking to have another Child. I need a lot of yours idea and thoughts why i should not have anymore a baby. All will be appriciated. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Fincathous  +, writes (12 March 2010):
 if you love your husband it makes more sense to work through this together and refocus your energy on something else. it is not worth your marriage. it seems you are dewelling on the baby. are you missing something in your life you need to fulfill an empty aching or longing? if you are truely missing something the baby is not going to fill the void. ask yourself truthfully and do some inner searching and find out why you despartely want another baby.
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reader, Jade87  +, writes (10 March 2010):
truthfully i think it will be unfair if you have a child and your husband doesnt want one. I think it also unfair if you have a child at your age because when your child is 18 you will nearly be 60 years old. You wont look like that babies mum you will look like her grandmother.It not fair on the child, he/she will proberly get bullied because of your age kids at school can be mean trust me i know. Just put some deep thought into this decision as it affects everyone.
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