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writes:Hi =). i'm kinda new so dont abuse me or anything please, unless i say somthing stupid.I'm 18, and i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, also 18. basically we're both in love, and well he wants to go in to the Raf, and i am encouraging him too, and i want him too, and i also want to go into the fire service, but i want to do that when im in my mid 20s at least. but what i want is to do is like marry and have his babies before its too late for anything, i know im only young now, but what if something happend to one of us? or if i only just get in to the fire service and then i get pregnant. obviously i dont want one right this minute but i want one in the next couple of years at least so the child would be old enough to go nursery for the day whilst we work. but my partner doesnt understand that bit, why i want it young (20ish) i dont just want to start my dream job and then have the next couple of years off because of being pregnant.i just want someone to help me or somthing please =).thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, kenty139 +, writes (10 March 2010):
kenty139 is verified as being by the original poster of the question inderstand how im young now, but i want them when im aout 20ish, cos i dont want to juist get in to my job and then have a baby and then lose where i was.
thank you for answering tho =)
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reader, ulick  +, writes (10 March 2010):
 I think if you are sure about both of you its a good idea to have kids earlier (I had mine when I was 30 and my partner 29 and she had to stop working which was a major issue in our relationship) However you are pretty young and I think you might wanna go out a bit more before settling down cause eventually it will be bad if you feel you missed out stuff and wanna do them later on.
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