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writes:Whenever I ask questions on here, i only get 1 or 2 answers and sometimes they dont help. So im going to do my best to tell you everything. 2010, fresh start.. This year I decided to be a different and better person. And oh my god, its worked so far. In 2009, I was more interested in flirting with the nearest boy that sticking with my friends + family. Family life was hell and I got involved with the bad boy crew.. so this year, i told them where to go and became totally uninterested in boys. Just friends and family were the most important in my life. I guess its kind of true what they say, the right boy comes around the corner unexpectedly, or is it?Everyday on my bus journey to school, i noticed a boy from another school (shares the same bus) who was really moody and gave me evils. So i decided to add him on IM and asked him why he did this? He said he didnt realise.. and we got talking. This week its been great... he dumped his girlfriend and told me straight away. He calls me babe and tells me he loves me over IM. At first, i wasnt even interested and noticed straight away that he was. This morning I saved him a seat on the bus and he sat by me. He seemed really nervous but kept the conversation up. When he left it was a quick seeya. I really hope he isnt like all the other boys that have messed me around? Shall i just be honest and tell him i dont wanna be messed around? Any tips? please help x
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reader, r_a_w_r1645  +, writes (10 March 2010):
 tell him that you like him, but tell him u dont wanna be used or anything. he does seem to like you which is good. :D good luck.
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reader, Kristabella006 +, writes (10 March 2010):
To make sure that he isn't like all the other boys, get to know him. Spend time with him, and his friends.
Invite him round for dinner, go to the movies. Your only young right now, so do what makes you happy. If you get messed around, then you will get over it.
Im 20 now, but when I was your age.. I was in love with the baddest boy in school. We were together for 1yr and a half. I was warned by all my friends that he would treat me wrong, cheat on me with the other girls that fancied him. One night he did... but I don't regret my decision of being with him because I had so much fun. We did everything together, even though I wasn't allowed to be with him, as my parents weren't keen.
Do what feels right, if it turns out he is like the rest.. you will learn and become stronger.
I say go for it. You never know he could be your first love.
As for telling him how you feel.. go for it, it's obvious he likes you :)
Hope all goes well
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reader, Kenj +, writes (10 March 2010):
 Only time will show you if he really likes you and visa versa.
Did you talk back with him or let him do all the talking.
Communication in relationships has to work both ways, see if he sits by you again the next day, if he avoids you then its probably because he doesnt like you. If he sits by you talk with him if you want to find out more about him.
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