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My sister is sleeping with the guy she hooked me up with!

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Question - (10 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *abygirl99 writes:

I "had" this crush on a guy that lives in my apartment complex my sister knew I like him and ask him to come meet me he did and we hit it off there. He made it clear he wasn't looking for a relationship so I did the big no no and we had relations early while trying to no him. I found myself having relations with him on a regular until he went out of town and I didn't no he was gone for a week so he wasn't answering none of my calls so I decided to call him from my sister phone still no answer.

Make a long story short I started seeing my sister car in my apartment complex late at night all of a sudden and gone before the sun comes up. I ask her why her car was back her but she never gave me a answer I knew she didn't no anybody in my area and put two and two together she is f***ing the guy I was dealing with ! Do you no she didn't even try to hide her car ? It will be times I will wait up all nite trying to catch her so one day I went in her phone and found his phone number in her contacts ! This went on for about a month and I haven't seen her car. I wanted to confront him and ask him but it's not his fault it's hers she's my sister if you knew you like him then why set me up ? Everysence then I have become very angry and really don't want to be around her I have tried to come and ask her on more than once and I just be ingored ! I don't want her around my man or any guy I'm dating she may throw her panties at them how do I confront him without causing any confussion sense she don't want to talk.... Plz help

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A male reader, duke57 United States +, writes (10 March 2010):

She's your sister. Just tell her flat out what you wrote to us here. If she can't stop or admit to it then as CaringGuy said you need to break up with him AND with her.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (10 March 2010):

Well now you know the truth. Your sister wanted him and used to you to get closer to him. If I were you, I'd leave your sister out of your life as much as possible.

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