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Sometimes I feel like I love him then on other days I don't know how I feel.

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Question - (10 March 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I don't know if I want to be with my boyfriend anymore and it scares me to even say it. For the past couple days I've been wondering, why do I feel like this? I've come to realization, that I haven't felt the same since we had an arguement on Saturday. It wasnt anything big.. I cried a lot about it, when I wasn't even that hurt..

We've been together for about three months now, and he has been over all a really great boyfriend, with a couple downs here and there. He treats me well, always tells me I'm beautiful, and how I deserve to be happy. He always listens, and is very caring about my feelings. I know he loves me, and I would never have a legitimate reason to break up with him..

There are days where I feel like I can't live without him and that I'm falling for him, but on days like today, I just feel like my heart is conflicted, and I don't feel anything at all. I don't want to break-up with him and regret it, as this feeling could very well possibly pass.. but I don't want to feel like I have to force it, or fake feelings that aren't there.

I've also been thinking of my horrible ex boyfriend lately and I don't know why. I would never want to go back to him, but I know that my love for him was real and I'm beginning to wonder if I'll ever feel like that with my boyfriend.

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