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writes:So yeah,there's this guy I talked to on this website,whenever he sees me online he messages,we have discusses serious matters and we just like talking to each other period..he said it's rare to find someone intelligent like me on a website etc. We both appreciate each other.He lives all the way in the States,I am in Europe.We never talked on IM.He's been nice and polite to me,like if he takes too long to reply he will say sorry etc. Last night,he messaged me by putting my name as the subject and then added "if it isnt my favorite vampire" (cause it was really late over here.)I submitted the conversation,where you will see we had a missunderstanding. The first message is at the bottom,and so on. So after I said that "hmmm ok" he never answered back. Usually when I just say ok he asks how my day's doing or speaks about something else. It's not that he signed off,he was still online. I just don't like how our conversation ended.Yeah,yall can say i'm making a big deal outta it,but I want to learn how I can handle every situation the best way.So i'm thinking,the next time he messages me,should i mention something about how he didn't respond to my last message? Say something like "you got turned off last night?" I feel that even though he does like me,and appreciates me,he sometimes can't escape the young girl stereotype. He's 26. Yall can say you cant know someone unless you really met them,and thats true,however i've rejected many guys cause of how they talked to me,so i do believe i can say something good and witty in my message.From:Electra KMessage:hrmmm ooookKevin P:21 hours agowhen you said somethin about what makes me think id be around that long or somethin like that lolElectra K:21 hours agooh really? and you could tell because..?Kevin P:21 hours agohaha it was easy to tell you were being difficult on purpose lolElectra K:21 hours agolol elaborateKevin P:21 hours agothe being difficult part i could see easy lolElectra K:21 hours agoit's ok you don't know me that well but i can assure you i know when someones likes me as a person and when someone just likes what they see,if i didnt,i would be naive.I don't need reassurance.In terms of playfully flirting...I was just acting shy and being difficult when i really wanna flirt you will know lolKevin P:21 hours agoi can only sometimes tell when you are joking lolElectra K:21 hours agooh now i'm insecure about myself ! and even worse,insecure in terms of what you think of me ! Kevin,why cant you see i'm only joking?Kevin P:21 hours agowell hell electra do you think id talk to you all the time if i didnt like you as a person and enjoy your company? neck company could be even better lolElectra K:21 hours agodidnt know 'attractive' gives a free pass to people so they can get close enough to bite me lolKevin P:21 hours agolol im not playin games, we both know i think you are attractive soooo i was just stating thatElectra K:21 hours agoi am 20 but you're the one playing games ok buddy whatever lolKevin P:21 hours agoi was just making a comment, thaaaats all lolElectra K:21 hours agolooks like you've been wanting to do this lolKevin P:22 hours agohey i wasnt even startin lolElectra K:22 hours agolol you need to stop Kevin P:22 hours agoi didnt say, im just sayin it could be a good thingElectra K:22 hours agowhat makes you think you're gonna be around that long for that to happen? hahaKevin P:22 hours agooooh lets just say gorgeous girl and neck, not a bad combo in alot of situationsElectra K:22 hours agooh yeah?how?Kevin P:22 hours agohmmm ya know in a way that could be a good and bad thing Electra K:22 hours agoyou can't know unless you get close enough and get bitKevin P:22 hours agoif it isnt my favorite vampire
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (13 March 2010):
mizz.butterflies is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well its been like 4 days and he's been online, he didn't contact me. This is weird since he always does,and we engage in nice conversations. So,if his connection did cut off or something,he had 4 days to write back and say something like that. I dont think its the right thing to act dumb.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (13 March 2010):
 Hi, well if your sure hes not insecure than you could ask him something like "did you get cut off the last time we chatted"
If he asks why, just say well you never finished our conversation.
See what he says. It could be something like his internet connection dropped out, or he had to go and answer the phone or door, Theres lots of reasons.
If he doesnt want to communicate then he will not contact you again or block you, but I doubt that.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (13 March 2010):
mizz.butterflies is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answer,but you are missing the question here.
My question was whether i should say something about him not answering my last message or not. And he's not insecure at all.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (12 March 2010):
The problem is with meeting people via the internet is they can be anyone they want to be and you would not even know any different until you actually met them.
Not saying here he is pretending to be anyone he is not but one thing that does stand out from his message it sounds like he is insecure. Not sure if what he is saying is offending you so hes putting LOL after everything.
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