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writes:Okay so i really liked this girl and everything and we started going out and now she's in love with me but i can't seem to fall in love back even though i really, really want too. I don't want to break up and hurt her. I want to keep her and love her back because she is great. Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2010): Love takes time Well the sort of love your talking about Yes some people fall in love real quick At this point you do have have for her as you havd said you doint woint to hurt her So you love her as a friend as well as haveing some other feeling in there other wise you wouldent be going out In time if shes miss right your feeling will get stronger in time the more time you spend together and even the time you spend apart missing each other its all to do with a form of love
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reader, agonyaunt778 +, writes (11 March 2010):
Love is not something you can control. You would do her justice and respect by telling her how you feel - you think she is a great girl but you are not in love with her. I think she would appreciate that in the long run because no one wants to be with someone who is faking being in love with them. The important thing is not to let time slip by while you agonize over this decision, because the longer it takes to tell her, the more it will hurt her. This could eventually lead to affairs later on if you stay together and don't love her, and soon or later the truth will always come out.
Also keep in mind that you are young, and that you will probably break a few hearts and have your heart broken. Part of life!
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