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*imo
writes:Single for the first time in a long time, with no single girl friends to enjoy it with.My girls all have boyfriends, why would they want to go out with me, when their boyfriends will pick them up by car (instead of with me by bus lol) and their boyfriends will pay for the meal always etc, send them home with a kiss goodnight and all that stuff.I dont 'do' anything with guys anymore either, cant be bothered for the hassle of failed flings, when I am hit on, I completely ignore it and avoid intimate moments with guys, but guys never see me as just a friend :( so my guy friends well yeh :/ maybe see me as annoying cuz im not up for 'fun' like that even though they expect me to be cuz im one of the only single girls around -__-I am enjoying getting to know myself better and not have to please anyone but myself etc but :/ it gets a bit lonely, despite my attempts to fill my time with exercise, working hard at school, seeing friends, more time with family (tho my parents also too busy for me it seems)...soooo what do i do? Turn into crazy-cat-lady? lol any advice from other single people, having a bf was such easy company, but iv broken up wit my ex's for good and have no one to move on to...not going to move on to anyone for the hell of it -___-Owww *sigh* advice if your willing would be FTW :)
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (10 March 2010):
 Join the club homegirL! I've been single for 8 months now...
and although i do enjoy doing things for myself,sometimes i wish i was dating someone. My problem is i have specificn preferences though (i want me an african american guy and i live in greece...ugh!) so yeah,if you're not "narrowminded" as I am...give a guy a chance?
Here's what you can do.Find something you like doing or something you wanna learn. Join a club.There you will have the opportunity to meet guys of the same interests and it will increase the possibility of you liking someone :-)
Almost all my girls have boyfriends too,it's frustrating when you ask them to do something and they go like " My bf has prepared something special tonight.im so soorryyy"
I can completely understand where you coming from.
Like i said,try the hobby idea,and even if you dont meet a guy,at least you'll do something for yourself!
best of luck!
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reader, mr toyboy  +, writes (10 March 2010):
Just get a man and stop whinning.You had a failed relationship does not mean there are no other good guys out there who can treat you better.
Obviously, your friends with Boyfriends will always prefer to spend time with thier boyfriends.
Some women will say they enjoy being single but deep down, its killling them inside.
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