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writes:Ok basically one of my oldest friends (who I'm not that close to anymore) lended me her laptop recently and she forgot to delete her history and I had forgotten the adress of the site I had already visited so went to find it there and a link flashed up so I opened it to find that my friend had been watching lesbian porn. I don't know how to react to this... do I say anything to her? I know that she has said to me before that she was bi-curios but I never thought her serious?? Is it natural for her to watch that sort of thing? I am really nervous about being around her and feel awkward... :( Please Help!!!
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reader, indigonight87  +, writes (7 June 2010):
To answer your question, yes it's normal. Your friend even said she was bi curious which means she digs woman, big deal. Unless she has tried unwanted advances then there is no reason to feel awkward or any different about her as your friend. Her sexuality does not chnage her as a person. It would be shallow to not talk or be around a friend anymore because of their sexuality.
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reader, Jade87 +, writes (10 March 2010):
Truthfully i think you two need to talk. even if she is bisexual this doesnt mean she likes you or that she wants to be with you. she is still your friend so speak to her about your feeling. She proberly needs someone to talk to about this.If it was a male friend would you still feel awkward if not maybe it your point of view that makes you think this is wrong.In my opinion i dont care wether they are straight, gay , black or white they are still your friends and dont change that.
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reader, trigger18 +, writes (10 March 2010):
hey there hunny,
i know that this is an awkward topic for you to bring up with ur friend but at the end of the day like you said she is bi-curious and shes bound to want to watch lesbian porn and find out wot it involves and how things are done. this is her way of trying to discover whether she feels right doing this type of thing. i went through the same process as your friend as im bi. shes just experimenting with wot she does and does not like in her sexual mind. this could just be a phase or it could be just who she is. saying something to her may embarress her but dont be too worried hunny because at the end of the day you will have been friends far too long for her to want anything from you and if she does then you can always say no. its not the be all and end all. if you feel really awkward with her still and shes pretty open about her sexuality then do wot me and my best friend do. we dont openly talk about it with each other unless on joking terms. or if you dnt want to do that then openly ask questions about it to her. she wont mind. my best friend did and thats how she found out my true feelings about being bi. like i said this is perfectly natural for her to do and it shouldnt stop you from being good friends. her sexuality wont change who you know.
i hope this helped xx
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