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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: ok this may be be a strange thing to ask, i was kinda seing this guy, slept with him twice, second time i slept with him he got this text and he didnt reply he said dont worry its only natalieAnd i replyed to him by saying is natalie your gf, he said no anyway didnt think nothing more of it then he said when we finished having sex that, im crazy and need to leave which i did, anyway nxt day i said to him what it was all about and he said ur crazy member and that i need help I only asked him one questionAnyway i carried on texting him and sometimes he would reply and sometimes he wouldnt But then for the past coupke of weeks he has been replying to my messeges and being really nice Sould i carry on txting him and ask him 2 meet me I do like him but why has he suddenly changed again Help i really dont understand men
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 March 2010):
Seems to me like he wants the sex. Maybe he's realized he was being a jerk. But to be honest, why bother with someone this unreliable. You're not even really in a relationship and already he's let you down.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (10 March 2010):
He’s has realised he’s been a jerk; I doubt it was another girlfriend on the text because he wouldn’t have told you about it if she was.
He was angry that you doubted him and has calmed down now.
If he just uses you for sex then get rid of him, he’s not worth it. But if he treats you with respected, puts you first, does things for you then maybe you want to work at it and stop being suspicious of him.
You will need to trust each other for the relationship to work.
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