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We love each other, but there are complications!

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Question - (10 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay so this guy..he's my best friend and he knows I love him and recently he told me he loves me too. Great right? I'm 14 turning 15 in two months and he's 19 turning 20 in a few weeks..hi brother is in love with me too (he's 17) we don't know what to do..he won't tell anyone that he loves me. In fact he denies that he even likes me. he says its because he doesn't what to hurt his brother and because of the age difference. but then he said that age doesn't matter because love comes in all shapes sizes colors and ages. but my parents would definitely not approve of us dating 1. because of the age and 2. because he's black. i don't know what to do and he won't talk about it at all. help asap we are falling apart as I type this!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2010):

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hey thanks to both of you. :) We sat down and had a very deep conversation about where we were going and we both decided that it would be best if we just remained friends for a while. He doesn't love me well not in that way. But I'm just glad the awkwardness is over. I have my best friend back and that's all that matters. Thanks again.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2010):

You are too young to be dating some who should be out of high school. Second you are not really together if you guys can't even say words like,"love". The reason he is worried about saying this is because you are 14 and he is almost 20. He even knows that this is not a normal or acceptable situation. Take your time to grow up and hang out with people closer to your own age. You will be 20+(after which age differences matter less) in a blink of an eye.

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